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I am currently a prostitute AMA

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AmaNameChanged1 Wed 04-Dec-19 22:16:09

Currently working as an escort (prostitute) AMA and I will answer as honestly as I can

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PrettyPurse Wed 04-Dec-19 22:17:09

How did you get into the line of work?

Strawberrypancakes Wed 04-Dec-19 22:17:22

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

whiskersonkittenss Wed 04-Dec-19 22:17:43

Do you ever orgasm during your work?
Do clients want to please you?

Hope this isn't too gross/personal. Just wondering smile

Wilmalovescake Wed 04-Dec-19 22:20:28

Do you worry about your safety?

Does it impact your mental health?

Daffodil55 Wed 04-Dec-19 22:20:51

Not sure why you want a questions and answer thread on this subject? Are you looking for the shock factor amongst us?

My (first?) question is how do you work? On the street or are you a high class call girl type of prostitute?

fartingrainbows Wed 04-Dec-19 22:20:51

How do you cope if you are really repulsed by a client or by something they want you to do? Can you/do you say no?

Regreteitherway Wed 04-Dec-19 22:20:56

Do you set up meetings etc online?

pinkmagic1 Wed 04-Dec-19 22:22:11

Have you ever refused to sleep with a customer as you found them physically repulsive?

Ohyesiam Wed 04-Dec-19 22:22:18

How do you have sex with someone you don’t fancy? Do you think it’s psychologically damaging?

PlumsGalore Wed 04-Dec-19 22:22:37

Are you not working tonight?

AllTheWhoresOfMalta Wed 04-Dec-19 22:23:26

Do you ever fancy any of the clients?

CalmFizz Wed 04-Dec-19 22:24:19

Are you registered self employed/paying tax?

AmaNameChanged1 Wed 04-Dec-19 22:24:39

How I got into it ?
I did it several years ago for a short time as I had a young baby I was on mat leave and my OH lost his job . It was his suggestion after seeing an agency advertising in the local press. I was very young and it paid the bills . I stopped after a few months and it was never mentioned again. Fast forward a few years and I was a single parent on income support. My youngest child turned 5 and I was benefit capped. I literally had 25p in my bank account to feed us all. So I have gone back to it. It’s kept a roof over our heads , paid for my children’s school uniforms , trips , my mot on my car (an old runner nothing flash) and will pay for their presents this Christmas

Do I ever orgasm ?
No ! It takes me ages at the best of times and mentally there’s a block and I simply can’t . The majority of my clients are older and a good 90% of them want the intimacy they are lacking in their personal life for whatever reason and trying to please me is a big part of that for them

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Back2Bali Wed 04-Dec-19 22:26:53

What do you tell people when they ask what you do for a living

VanyaHargreeves Wed 04-Dec-19 22:26:55

Have you got backup in case you find yourself with a scary or dangerous client?

Does it effect you that it is not really your will but merely your financial circumstances that is consenting to their actions ?

Daffodil55 Wed 04-Dec-19 22:27:15

So do you still claim as a single parent and receive benefits? Do you declare all your earnings which I assume are all cash payments.

TheVanguardSix Wed 04-Dec-19 22:27:29

Do you ever worry about coming to any harm or do you generally feel safe?

MonnaLIza Wed 04-Dec-19 22:27:55

It was his suggestion that you stated working as a prostitute? No wonder he is your ex. How did that make you feel?

Daisydoola Wed 04-Dec-19 22:31:25

Do you french kiss?

AmaNameChanged1 Wed 04-Dec-19 22:32:05

If someone isn’t my cup of tea in terms of physical attractiveness then I try and find some common ground with them. When I meet with them in an appt I offer a tea / coffee or cold drink and break the ice with a chat for 5-10 mins. I have a script I follow . Have you travelled far , what is it you do for work etc . There’s usually always something you can find in common to talk about and build a slight rapport that way.

Never had anyone with poor physical hygiene or anything like that . When I meet them I pass the bathroom on the way into my room and I always have the door open with toiletries out on show and clean towels and make a point of saying that’s the toilet and bathroom if you need to freshen up. The majority of them will have showered just before leaving home or will ask to freshen up if they have come from work or travelled to me. I only had one instance in the summer when it was very hot that they guy was rather pungent downstairs and I very politely asked him if he would mind having a freshen up and not to worry I know it’s very hot out and can’t be helped.

Had one client I fancied

I am registered as self employed with HMRC as it meant the benefit cap was lifted for me working 16 hours a week and therefore I submit a tax return

I don’t work evenings. I work weekdays during school hours

I am neither a street worker nor a high class (belle de jour) I fit the category of the vast majority of women doing this kind of work. Girl next door selling sex in suburbia

I advertise on a site called Adult Work . That’s the only site I advertise on . I only see men who have feedback and I do not display my face on my photos on there in case a neighbour or family member or someone else I know was to spot me

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anenomeV19 Wed 04-Dec-19 22:34:36

Do you work from your home?

Sleepingboy Wed 04-Dec-19 22:36:30

What do you charge?

Daffodil55 Wed 04-Dec-19 22:36:33

How much do you make on an average day? (you DID say "ask me anything")

Lessthanzero Wed 04-Dec-19 22:38:58

Where do you work from?
How much do you charge?
Does it concern you that a lot of serial killers mothers were prostitutes?

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