I am currently a prostitute AMA

How did you get into the line of work?

I guess my biggest question would be what circumstances led you to this...

Do you ever orgasm during your work?
Do clients want to please you?

Hope this isn't too gross/personal. Just wondering

Do you worry about your safety?

Does it impact your mental health?

Not sure why you want a questions and answer thread on this subject? Are you looking for the shock factor amongst us?

My (first?) question is how do you work? On the street or are you a high class call girl type of prostitute?

How do you cope if you are really repulsed by a client or by something they want you to do? Can you/do you say no?

Do you set up meetings etc online?

Have you ever refused to sleep with a customer as you found them physically repulsive?

How do you have sex with someone you don’t fancy? Do you think it’s psychologically damaging?

Are you not working tonight?

Do you ever fancy any of the clients?

Are you registered self employed/paying tax?

How I got into it ?
I did it several years ago for a short time as I had a young baby I was on mat leave and my OH lost his job . It was his suggestion after seeing an agency advertising in the local press. I was very young and it paid the bills . I stopped after a few months and it was never mentioned again. Fast forward a few years and I was a single parent on income support. My youngest child turned 5 and I was benefit capped. I literally had 25p in my bank account to feed us all. So I have gone back to it. It’s kept a roof over our heads , paid for my children’s school uniforms , trips , my mot on my car (an old runner nothing flash) and will pay for their presents this Christmas

Do I ever orgasm ?
No ! It takes me ages at the best of times and mentally there’s a block and I simply can’t . The majority of my clients are older and a good 90% of them want the intimacy they are lacking in their personal life for whatever reason and trying to please me is a big part of that for them

What do you tell people when they ask what you do for a living

Have you got backup in case you find yourself with a scary or dangerous client?

Does it effect you that it is not really your will but merely your financial circumstances that is consenting to their actions ?

So do you still claim as a single parent and receive benefits? Do you declare all your earnings which I assume are all cash payments.

Do you ever worry about coming to any harm or do you generally feel safe?

It was his suggestion that you stated working as a prostitute? No wonder he is your ex. How did that make you feel?

Do you french kiss?

If someone isn’t my cup of tea in terms of physical attractiveness then I try and find some common ground with them. When I meet with them in an appt I offer a tea / coffee or cold drink and break the ice with a chat for 5-10 mins. I have a script I follow . Have you travelled far , what is it you do for work etc . There’s usually always something you can find in common to talk about and build a slight rapport that way.

Never had anyone with poor physical hygiene or anything like that . When I meet them I pass the bathroom on the way into my room and I always have the door open with toiletries out on show and clean towels and make a point of saying that’s the toilet and bathroom if you need to freshen up. The majority of them will have showered just before leaving home or will ask to freshen up if they have come from work or travelled to me. I only had one instance in the summer when it was very hot that they guy was rather pungent downstairs and I very politely asked him if he would mind having a freshen up and not to worry I know it’s very hot out and can’t be helped.

Had one client I fancied

I am registered as self employed with HMRC as it meant the benefit cap was lifted for me working 16 hours a week and therefore I submit a tax return

I don’t work evenings. I work weekdays during school hours

I am neither a street worker nor a high class (belle de jour) I fit the category of the vast majority of women doing this kind of work. Girl next door selling sex in suburbia

I advertise on a site called Adult Work . That’s the only site I advertise on . I only see men who have feedback and I do not display my face on my photos on there in case a neighbour or family member or someone else I know was to spot me

Do you work from your home?

What do you charge?

How much do you make on an average day? (you DID say "ask me anything")

Where do you work from?
How much do you charge?
Does it concern you that a lot of serial killers mothers were prostitutes?