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I have had affairs with men I've met on kik AMA

(92 Posts)
Inboxofglory Sat 26-Oct-19 12:23:35

Pretty much that.

PickAChew Sun 27-Oct-19 23:02:12

Do you think any of us really give a shit about your sex life?

FixItUpChappie Sun 27-Oct-19 23:02:45

Do you think your husband has a right to know about the sexually transmitted diseases your risking bringing home?

Mickhasnotorso Sun 27-Oct-19 23:05:16

Why do you think people give a shit

Scrapper142 Sun 27-Oct-19 23:13:59

Do you honestly believe the men are motivated by being in a celibate marriage?

icanbreathagain Sun 27-Oct-19 23:18:35

I think you're very brave and well done for doing something you enjoy!

ThreeLittleDots Sun 27-Oct-19 23:29:23

Is this an advert?

IAmPrettyWisdomous Sun 27-Oct-19 23:39:34

@icanbreathagain Brave for having affairs? Really?

If your partner ever cheats on you, don't forget to comment how brave they are. hmm

IAmPrettyWisdomous Sun 27-Oct-19 23:41:25

Put your knickers back on and leave other women's husbands alone

It'll take a lot more than that, self respect, self esteem, common fucking decency..

MyKingdomForBrie Sun 27-Oct-19 23:42:26

Why are you doing this AMA?

StanleySteamer Sun 27-Oct-19 23:47:14

If husband is celibate, then STD's will be OP's problem, not his.
Is there a physical or mental reason why your marriage is celibate or do you both simply not fancy each other anymore?

OooErMissus Sun 27-Oct-19 23:50:59

It's not a question - but I'm willing to bet: you're currently on, or have been on, antidepressants. And have, or had, mental health issues.

Don't fancy your life much.

thanks as I feel really sorry for you.

RonaldMcDonald Mon 28-Oct-19 00:01:25

This thread is really bloody judgey

OP - what have been the surprising positives you’ve gained from this?

MonsterMashedSpud Mon 28-Oct-19 00:01:47

Have you ever considered charging for it?

JesusHChristOnABike Mon 28-Oct-19 00:05:55

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MissLadyM Mon 28-Oct-19 00:14:12

Oooh aren't you special?! Fucking creeps who would shag a barbers floor!

HoliBobber Mon 28-Oct-19 00:19:20

Do you realise this sounds sociopathic?

Ginnymweasley Mon 28-Oct-19 00:32:07

Surely the OP is not responsible for other peoples marriages just her own. So the OP might be ruining her own marriage but the men she sleeps with have full responsibility for their own actions too. These men like OP are actively looking for sex/affair etc.
How long has your marriage been celibate? Why didn't you just end it?

PeriComoToes Mon 28-Oct-19 00:36:25

Why don't you and your husband have sex?

Shortfeet Mon 28-Oct-19 00:46:33

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RonaldMcDonald Mon 28-Oct-19 00:49:21

Lots of marriages are celibate but loving. If one or other person wants to have sex because they miss that contact and their partner isn’t into it anymore that is fine by me. Actually people simply make their own choices.
I’m sorry so many people blame external others for the demise of their relationship

ComtesseDeSpair Mon 28-Oct-19 00:56:14

Why do you specifically target married / attached men? Is there a psychological element you get off on?

I have a lot of sex with a lot of different men and women (open relationship) so no judgement on the casual sex part; but they are always single or also in open relationships and I can’t understand why you’d want the added complexity of sex partners with attachments and families to hurt.

RhinoskinhaveI Mon 28-Oct-19 01:01:32

Is this part of some sort of BDSM game?

1forAll74 Mon 28-Oct-19 01:14:09

I don't know why you have posted on here,about this hobby of yours. You don't want advice do you. And you don't like some women anyway, especially the ones who are your sex partner's wives or partners.

PixieDustt Mon 28-Oct-19 01:24:38

You don't tend to give out a lot of personal information intially, until you can trust each other. Not dissimilar to other kinds of Internet dating.
How can you trust one another when from what you've mentioned you're all cheating & lying.

Do I care? We are all adults.
Act like one then.

Finally, honestly Kik. How old are you? On Kik it seems to be very young people or a lot older people.

AliciaQuays Mon 28-Oct-19 01:29:41

Where do you meet and what does your h think you’re doing?

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