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I have had affairs with men I've met on kik AMA

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Inboxofglory Sat 26-Oct-19 12:23:35

Pretty much that.

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Samsamsuperman Sat 26-Oct-19 12:24:06

What's kik?

Inboxofglory Sat 26-Oct-19 12:25:34

It's an online messenger service.

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Whichoneofyoudidthat Sun 27-Oct-19 13:34:26

How old are you?

Why? What do you get out if it?

Where do the liaisons take place?

Girlananchronism Sun 27-Oct-19 13:47:17

Who fucking cares, men will fuck anything, whoopdefucking do

PorpentinaScamander Sun 27-Oct-19 13:48:00

Are you married? Are they? Don't you feel guilty?

mamandematribu Sun 27-Oct-19 13:48:51

Most men will fuck anything with legs. Feel sorry for the wife and kids at home.

pinkyredrose Sun 27-Oct-19 13:50:15

Why do you do that?

Zolaaaaa Sun 27-Oct-19 13:50:38

How do you even meet anyone on kik? Anyway if you walk around with your legs open something will eventually walk into them smile

ProseccoIsTheAnswerHere Sun 27-Oct-19 13:51:37

Wasn’t Kik aimed at teens like... in 2009?

Girlananchronism Sun 27-Oct-19 13:56:14

You are just a hole to these people

Mamabear1988 Sun 27-Oct-19 14:11:46

Ok - why? Are you with someone and have children at home? Are you happy with the situation?

Inboxofglory Sun 27-Oct-19 16:13:23

A lot of questions, and judgements.

Yes I'm married, yes, so are they.

I wanted to have an affair and it seemed the easiest way, lots and lots of married men looking to find someone to have an, affair with.

You meet people via groups, you can search on subject and chat to others.

Some people have Fwb, some have emotional affairs. It's like dating, just for married people not singles.

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Sparklingbrook Sun 27-Oct-19 16:21:48

What does your husband think?

Morgan12 Sun 27-Oct-19 16:23:04

Why do you want to have affairs?

Batshittery Sun 27-Oct-19 16:24:00

Congratulations. Your family must be so proud of you hmm

GrapefruitGin Sun 27-Oct-19 16:25:32

Do you have children? If so, how old? How would you feel if they found out?

Tractorgirlz Sun 27-Oct-19 16:26:18

Have you got a history of abuse and poor self esteem?

blueshoes Sun 27-Oct-19 16:26:45

Do you know what they look like before you meet up.

Do you avoid giving any real life info about yourself (e.g. your real name, where you live, employer) so they do not track you down and, say, blackmail you.

Do they equally avoid giving personal details.

If so, and neither knows each other, what is to say they won't rape or kill you or worse when you meet for illicit activities.

Who will find and identify your body?

Branleuse Sun 27-Oct-19 16:29:58

do you get a kick out of your husband not knowing?
Do you think he would not be up for an open relationship?
Would you feel jealous if you found out your husband was doing the same?

Sagradafamiliar Sun 27-Oct-19 16:32:28

Kik 🤣 what a sordid little life. Is this as good as it gets for you or do will you aim higher one day?

Whatwouldbigfatfannydo Sun 27-Oct-19 16:34:14

Pat on the back for you flowers

PortiaCastis Sun 27-Oct-19 16:34:57

Put your knickers back on and leave other women's husbands alone

ExhaustedGrinch Sun 27-Oct-19 16:37:21

Do you care about the people who could end up hurt by your affairs or are you not bothered?

Do you or the men you meet up with have children?

Inboxofglory Sun 27-Oct-19 22:59:52

Yes, I have children and a couple of the men I have met do as well.

You don't tend to give out a lot of personal information intially, until you can trust each other. Not dissimilar to other kinds of Internet dating.

Do I care? We are all adults.

I did chat with someone who had never had an affair, and actually try to dissuade him but he wanted to go ahead.

Yes, you know what they look like. As I said, it's like tinder.

My marriage is celibate, as are many men's. Kik works as a way for people to connect.

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