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Start using Mumsnet PremiumI have had affairs with men I've met on kik AMA
(93 Posts)Pretty much that.
What's kik?
It's an online messenger service.
How old are you?
Why? What do you get out if it?
Where do the liaisons take place?
Who fucking cares, men will fuck anything, whoopdefucking do
Are you married? Are they? Don't you feel guilty?
Most men will fuck anything with legs. Feel sorry for the wife and kids at home.
Why do you do that?
How do you even meet anyone on kik? Anyway if you walk around with your legs open something will eventually walk into them 
Wasn’t Kik aimed at teens like... in 2009?
You are just a hole to these people
Ok - why? Are you with someone and have children at home? Are you happy with the situation?
A lot of questions, and judgements.
Yes I'm married, yes, so are they.
I wanted to have an affair and it seemed the easiest way, lots and lots of married men looking to find someone to have an, affair with.
You meet people via groups, you can search on subject and chat to others.
Some people have Fwb, some have emotional affairs. It's like dating, just for married people not singles.
What does your husband think?
Why do you want to have affairs?
Congratulations. Your family must be so proud of you 
Do you have children? If so, how old? How would you feel if they found out?
Have you got a history of abuse and poor self esteem?
Do you know what they look like before you meet up.
Do you avoid giving any real life info about yourself (e.g. your real name, where you live, employer) so they do not track you down and, say, blackmail you.
Do they equally avoid giving personal details.
If so, and neither knows each other, what is to say they won't rape or kill you or worse when you meet for illicit activities.
Who will find and identify your body?
do you get a kick out of your husband not knowing?
Do you think he would not be up for an open relationship?
Would you feel jealous if you found out your husband was doing the same?
Kik 🤣 what a sordid little life. Is this as good as it gets for you or do will you aim higher one day?
Pat on the back for you 
Put your knickers back on and leave other women's husbands alone
Do you care about the people who could end up hurt by your affairs or are you not bothered?
Do you or the men you meet up with have children?
Yes, I have children and a couple of the men I have met do as well.
You don't tend to give out a lot of personal information intially, until you can trust each other. Not dissimilar to other kinds of Internet dating.
Do I care? We are all adults.
I did chat with someone who had never had an affair, and actually try to dissuade him but he wanted to go ahead.
Yes, you know what they look like. As I said, it's like tinder.
My marriage is celibate, as are many men's. Kik works as a way for people to connect.
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