Have you struggled with crippling anxiety? DS19 is housebound with it.
Yes, a lot. From the ages of about 11 to 16 I didn't go out unless it was to see my Dad or go to sport, and I had to give that up for anxiety because the thought of continuing gave me a panic attack. Even from 16 - almost 18 (and continuing today at a lower level) I was incredibly anxious, particularly about school work and this idea I'd got in my head of being "good enough", though I did hide it a bit better. I'm still a very anxious person today, though nowhere near as bad as I was after a couple of "break throughs" in my second year of A-Levels, and it's still a struggle to do some things even if I do try to throw myself into things head first and not worry about them so much.
Did you just crack on with telling everybody you met from diagnosis onwards, or did it take time to adjust to knowing you had autism and did you have to work up to telling people?
Since I was diagnosed so young part of this is more a question for my parents, since I never really had to adjust to my diagnosis myself (if that makes sense), but I do remember being told not to talk about it, almost as though it was a shameful secret. Yet, at the same time I felt very pressured into telling people and my Mum would frequently tell a lot of people when I didn't want them to know. Over time, with my parents not really knowing or caring what my autism actually meant I just got treated like a bad kid and by the time I'd got this idea into my head that I was some kind of monster, in large part because of my autism, that I would never be loved or wanted because I was just this horrible person and after I'd exhausted my academic usefulness I might as well be dead. Taking all that into account, I didn't want to tell anyone and was pretty reluctant to even mention it to my sixth form.
Now though, I still wouldn't say I rush to tell people but I'm not ashamed to tell people. So I do still have to work up do telling people, and I have a few very close and very trusted people who know all the ins and outs of it, but I don't exactly hide it either, if that makes sense.