I'm a Mature Escort AMA(32 Posts)
For the past 8 weeks or so I have been leading a double life, and I am an Escort. Kicking myself really that I didn't do it years ago. I've even quit my regular job, not to do this full time, but because financially it made little sense when other people out there need employment.
What do you exactly? And are you the neighbour from the other thread?
Do you work in a nursing home escorting the mature to the loo?
Haha no I'm not the neighbour from the other thread. I started this one so I wasn't taking over that one.
I spend time with gentlemen. Escorting them to places they want - plus ones, meal and theatre, drive around London (yea it is weird), conversation on the phone etc.
They pay for my time and any related expenses - meals, tickets etc. And I get paid a considerable amount.
I don't screw all of my 'friends', currently I only do one. It's mutual consent. I don't feel forced. If anything he is getting robbed as he pays for an hour, and I am gone well within the hour.
How did you get into it.
Would you recommend it
Haha, no, that wouldn't pay as much. I have done though in the past.
(Of course, tell me to do one if answering the worst is traumatic. Potentially insensitive question there.)
How did you get into it? I’m skint and not bad looking .
Is it not just a euphemism for prostitution? Is there not always the expectation of sex / and if so and you don't want it, is there not a massive amount of pressure?
I got into it partially through a chat on here. Before Escorting I was, well still am highly active on Tinder. Through that chat and a few other things, I started thinking about why the fuck am I giving this away when I could make cash. So I did research. Obviously, it wasn't as blaze as this, it was something I was thinking about for ages.
I researched a lot, about the legalities, paying Tax etc, which I am registered as SE and through one of my 'friends' I have an accountant.
My profile is very clear about what I am about and that I mainly escort, what type of establishments I will go to, fees etc.
You have to have an open mind and be very clear about what you are willing and not willing to do. You also have to be open-minded because some of the requests that do come through can be bizarre. If you are willing to do it, you do. If not, nope the guy thanks you and that's it.
Best experience so far has been the car drives. I know it sounds crazy. These aren't during the day, so the hours aren't typical. But I can easily say jog on mate, I'm sleeping.
And another one a spa visit. He had booked a couple day thing, and she had dumped him a few days before. We went had full use of everything and a couple of treatment. Lunch and something to drink. In the end, he thanked me for the company.
Both different and enjoyable in their own unique ways. And no sex of any type.
Worse. The guy that stunk. It's clear on my profile I will not stay in the company of smelly people. There is no reason to. I met him at his hotel and we were going out. It never happened. I mean day old stale BO it was horrific and visible dirt. I left after it became obvious he wasn't running late and hadn't had a chance to clean up. He wasn't cleaning up. I'm also clear that my time will still be paid for.
It's not a euphemism for prostitution, well in my case. I screw one guy a week. Obviously how others operate is down to them. The guys know what they are getting as before any booking is made expectations are discussed.
I charge by the hour, which is £100. The guy I fuck pays the full hour, we are finished and I am showered and dressed within around 40 minutes. Yes, condoms are worn. It's another of my criteria. Others I know go bareback, I don't.
I'm averaging around £600 a week. So less than 6 hours work. I could earn more, but even with paying taxes and NI I still earn enough especially once you consider all my deductibles.
I've also started selling my erm used lingerie as well. That I did for a laugh, a pair of stockings that I had laddered when I was putting them on. I paid around £3 for them, they sold for a lot more.
I'm over 40. So considered a MILF/Cougar.
I wouldn't recommend it to anyone. Not because I have issues with it. I wouldn't recommend any job to anyone. Regardless of the job everyone's experiences differ. Some people say for example, oh office work is great. I found it to be extremely dull.
And are you the neighbour from the other thread?
That was my first thought
Do you get any bizarre requests?
Yes, I do hence the open mind.
There's the usual water/skat play. Each to their own, but no.
Plugging, I had to google that one, and erm no. Its basically male anal and that was a tinder request lol
Him dressing up as a baby.
The cheeky fucker who wanted me to fuck him for nothing.
Mother/daughter stuff which I reported. And would again.
Another one that wanted me and my boyfriend to go to his, for my boyfriend to creampie me, and for him as the fucked up husband clean me up and fuck me.
There are loads. Open minded and sense of humour. But then someone must be doing these things for them to be requested in the first place. Those are the workers I do feel for and will assume they are the ones that do need help.
There are closed forums, and advice and support is given to the exploited workers, just like here. But its also hard for them to get away just in the same way as it's hard to get out of an abusive relationship.
With respect, if you've only been doing it for 8 weeks, you can't have that much experience of the industry unlike someone who has say been doing it for a few years (or at least 1-2 years). Therefore, your experience and knowledge will be very limited. I genuinely (and say this with sincerity) have no intention of being rude, but if someone is on an AMA thread they should either be knowledgeable or experienced in whatever it is they are talking about because readers will be looking for a meaningful insight in to that particular area of your life, e.g. I wouldn't start a career in banking, social work, estate agent, store manager, dominatrix, professional submissive, stripper or whatever and think 8 weeks in that I'm knowledgeable enough (or experienced enough) to offer anything other than a casual observation of my experiences so far.
I would also add that you shouldn't have left your day job so quickly because as you will find out in due course this business is very up and down. You might rake it in initially, but later you may struggle as business slows for you and you may find on some days you can't even cover your overheads. There are hundreds if not thousands of sex workers out there (younger, older and anywhere in between) struggling each day to consistently make ends meet because this business is so very unpredictable (very high earnings one day, zero income or customers the next). Additionally, the powers that be are trying to stop the women in this industry from advertising online in certain ways, further pushing the men and women in this business to go underground and making what is already an extremely dangerous job, even more dangerous. It's not just street workers who are robbed, raped and murdered. It's the escorts who work from home, hotels and apartments and who work either locally/travel within the UK and/or internationally ('touring' escorts) that are regularly targeted by dangerous/unstable types. I hope you have not experienced this but at some point you will. When a situation like that arises, the way you ultimately respond may be the difference between you continuing with the rest of your life, or ultimately end in your death. These things come from experience of different types of men in different (and frequently volatile) situations. You are unlikely so early on to have experienced many of these type of situations. There's money to be made but you have to have your head screwed on, be very very alert for danger, (and have a virtually bomb proof vetting procedure to screen out undesireables - which you are unlikely to have honed this early on, simply because you are relatively new to this), you need to know how and where to market yourself, how to save and invest, you should have something else to fall back when you want to stop or are no longer able to do this work. You also need to realise that being is this industry can be very isolating (working alone, sometimes for long hours can be very isolating), trying to hide what you do can be stressful, the risks related to being 'outed' are huge and very real, family and friend relationships may suffer, some people may experience relationship difficulties. The flip side is for some, it can be a very good and positive experience and very empowering. Finally and perhaps most importantly, you need an exit plan. Many people fall into this line of work, sometimes by chance, sometimes by misfortune, for many it's an informed decision which they act on. It's easy enough to get in to, but very difficult to get out.
I hope anyone reading this (including the OP) realises that I am not criticising the OP but trying to make anyone unfamiliar/curious about the industry realise that there is a hell of a lot more to it then can be gleaned from 8 weeks experience of working in it. The limited opening post indicates that the OP experience has been 'a walk in the park' (thus far). The OP's age is irrelevant as so long as a person takes care of themself and makes an effort with their appearance, they will more than likely find a very willing and happy to pay customer base. There are elderly women in their 70's and even 80's who are doing this and commanding decent hourly rates and sometimes significantly more then the teens and twenty somethings in the same line of work (younger escorts are ten a penny, mature escorts are a plenty, but really mature escorts are a very 'niche' market).
Good luck OP. I hope your experience so far has been good (and profitable!!) and that you will never experience any of the negative points mentioned above. Stay safe
Edit: when I originally started replying to this, there was only ONE reply so I don't know if the OP has already mentioned or experienced any of the above so this reply is based on only being able to see the opening post and one reply.
I'm interested in this, so placemarking.
(In the thread, not the job! )
With respect you have made many assumptions.
I have personally been involved for 8 weeks. However my knowledge prior to this is immaterial, so won’t be discussed as this is personal experience.
Aren’t most posts short? Kind of the point to create a dialogue surely. I could have posted a long winded post with more info based on what I assumed people would want to know. But why?
The remainder of your assumptions I will come back tomorrow. Well later today.
Although kudos for not paragraphing the positives.
And the edit is bs. If you could only see one post and my op then you wouldn’t have known about the age/ mature question
She would've known about the age / mature question - it says it in your title!
I thought NotMyFinestMoment's post was measured and kind and must've taken her a loooong time to type. You sound very defensive and gung-ho about the dangers of your job and you'd probably do well to listen to women with more experience than you.
Plus, this thread says AMA. Not "only post stuff I want to hear"
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