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AIBU?

Do married couples actually have sex on wedding night?

228 replies

julesldn · 20/08/2015 01:39

Ok so not exactly an AIBU question but...

myself (not married) and some unmarried friends are discussing whether couples actually have sex on their wedding night, or are they too drunk/tired/emotional to DTD?

Any insights welcome - we're curious!

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Eternalsunshines · 20/08/2015 01:45

Too tired. Made up for it the next night.

HicDraconis · 20/08/2015 01:45

Was tired and emotional but not drunk (was also 12 weeks pregnant!). Yes, we dtd on our wedding night, very lovely it was too :)

Tigger365 · 20/08/2015 01:47

We were way too tired, I could barely get the dress off lol

Tigger365 · 20/08/2015 01:48

We got married late morning & had people around all day, if that makes a difference

HirplesWithHaggis · 20/08/2015 01:54

We didn't, but then we were on a (non-sleeper) train from Dundee to London overnight, en route to Paris via Hovercraft. (Those were the days...)

Once we arrived in Paris, however... Grin

Welshmaenad · 20/08/2015 01:57

We did, I was sober though (found out I was pregnant the day before the wedding Smile )

MadGrumblyGnome · 20/08/2015 02:09

We did, despite being tired from it being such a long day. Totally worth it!

The trend with our friends getting married now is to have a select number of guests back to the bridal suite after the wedding evening to all play games/drink/take ecstasy together. Don't care if I'm old fashioned but I can't see much romance in that. Hmm

MyHeartsPumpingWine · 20/08/2015 02:13

We didn't. I was knackered (had been up for 20hrs by bedtime) and I just wanted a wee without wrestling with my dress, a shower and my bed!
DH came out the bathroom to find me in my Spanx with my hair all unpinned and sticking up and burst out laughing saying Christ that's ruined the moment!

blibblobblub · 20/08/2015 03:10

We didn't. We were super knackered and a bit drunk.

After my friend's wedding she came knocking on our (me and some other friends) hotel room door as she needed help getting out of her dress Grin I don't think even they did it!

LikeABadSethRogenMovie · 20/08/2015 03:17

We did. We went to bed at 5am, completely shitfaced. We've had better sex tbh! Grin

Rainbunny · 20/08/2015 03:27

We didn't due to exhaustion, but we did the night before ;)

Seriously, it's silly to get hung up on the perceived significance of "wedding night sex" imo.

Tanfastic · 20/08/2015 03:32

Nope, I had my head down the bridal suite loo most of the night Confused

BrideOfWankenstein · 20/08/2015 03:38

I certainly hope we will.

ShelaghTurner · 20/08/2015 03:59

Nope. I fell asleep in the bathroom. Was knackered. Blush

TerrorAustralis · 20/08/2015 04:39

Yes! Was quite hyped up and didn't feel drunk (despite drinking).

I was glad we did because I was woken early the next morning by period pain, and that night we were on an overnight flight to our honeymoon.

Tootsiepops · 20/08/2015 04:55

We didn't. Far too tired.

Tootsiepops · 20/08/2015 04:55

By tired, I meant drunk Blush

Sparrowlegs248 · 20/08/2015 05:35

We did. We were both reasonably drunk (me more so i think) but it was still rather fabulous!

scrivette · 20/08/2015 05:44

We didn't as we were too tired but did the next morning.

NorfolkEnchance · 20/08/2015 06:19

Damn right we did. On our hotel balcony! (Married abroad, came home pregnant Grin)

Every1KnowsJeffHesUsuallyACunt · 20/08/2015 06:24

We did. We both stayed sober and stayed up pretty much all night Grin

MythicalKings · 20/08/2015 06:26

Nope. Dragged ourselves from the airport to the hotel and collapsed exhausted.

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stolemyusername · 20/08/2015 06:33

Not the wedding night, more like 40 minutes after the ceremony Blush

Wehavealwayslivedinthecastle · 20/08/2015 06:36

We did too. I had about a million hair pins digging into my head....ah the romance!

Shutthatdoor · 20/08/2015 06:38

Nope. Way too exhausted. made up for it the following day though

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