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If the fair-weather optimists (Bank-Holiday alert) among you have any burning (or rather not) questions for Boots suncare scientific adviser Mike Brown, get 'em in quick: we'll be sending them over to him shortly. And thanks for your Qs for happiness maestro Ben Renshaw: his As are in the building and should be live on the site soon.

Don't forget to vote for your pick of our footie-themed suggestions for June's Book of the Month. Full-time whistle blows for the poll on Monday (31 May).

Now for this week's parenting news...

Older mums on the rise: The number of births to women over 40 has almost trebled in the past 20 years, according to figures from the Office for National Statistics, and continues to increase. This bucks the current trend, with overall birth rate actually falling in 2009 – perhaps, say some commentators, due to recession-hit couples postponing childrearing because money is tight. (Daily Telegraph 25.05.10)

The '49-minute family': Parents only spend an average of 49 minutes a day with their children, according to a survey for National Family Week. Of the 3,000 parents surveyed, 68% cited money as a barrier to spending more time with their family. And money worries are rubbing off on kids, too, say the researchers: more than 25% of the eight to 15-year-olds questioned said money was the most important thing to them, coming ahead of health, education, sport or music. (BBC News 25.05.10) 

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Aitch's TV round-up: The Secret Diaries of Miss Anne Lister, BBC2, Mon 31 May, 9pm
So, I think we all know enough about television to compile a 'period drama' checklist, don't we? Ribboned bonnets? Heaving bosoms? Carriages and big houses and women getting the rough end of the stick, generally-speaking? Check, check, check and check – what ye seek, this dramatisation of the life of Yorkshire landowner, industrialist, traveller and diarist Anne Lister will provide. Ah, but there's a twist. Anne was, as the BBC press information rather bizarrely puts it, 'a pioneering lesbian'. I hardly need say that Sarah Waters does this sort of thing rather better but this is still a fine biopic of a remarkable (and fortunately wealthy) woman striking out for herself at a time when women of all particularities were slaves to their gender. Maxine Peake, who, let's face it, we all have a crush on, stars as Anne...
Discuss this show (and others) in our Telly Addicts Talk forum.

Recipe of the week: WelliesandPyjamas' fabtastically easy strawberry ice cream
The perfect hurrah-here-comes-June Bank-Holiday-weekend treat of a pud that's easy to make (no ice-cream machine needed) and super-slurpingly delish to eat.
You can review this week's recipe here - or why not post one yourself?

That's it. We're off to purloin a brollie or two...
Love, MNHQ

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