Totally missing the point IWD

(39 Posts)
Startail Fri 08-Mar-13 11:46:01

in my inbox this morning

I think someone has totally missed the of what international Women's Day is about

BabyMakesTheBellyGoRound Fri 08-Mar-13 11:50:35

Sometimes I want to repeatedly bang my head on the table.angry

kalidanger Fri 08-Mar-13 11:52:30

Ooh frocks!



hmm

FrothyDragon Fri 08-Mar-13 11:54:25

<cries>

WHY did I click the link? WHY? <bleaches eyeballs>

kalidanger Fri 08-Mar-13 11:57:24

I must say that this one remind me of my mum and watching Greenham Common on the news together grin

Songbird Fri 08-Mar-13 12:00:41

Dear god, it's so much worse than I thought it was going to be I actually laughed out loud!

Startail Fri 08-Mar-13 12:06:22

Fortunately I was sitting on the bed or I'd have thumbed the table hard enough to break something.

Honestly what is the fucking point.

Mitchy1nge Fri 08-Mar-13 12:09:41

they are not even very nice clothes

Startail Fri 08-Mar-13 12:11:08

Thumped,

I guess DD1 worked her socks of to get an A* in her science exams, just so she can afford nice underwear and high heels angry

Startail Fri 08-Mar-13 12:13:09

Very cheap and nasty, but DD1 had some kids stuff years ago and there is no escape from the mailing list.

Svrider Fri 08-Mar-13 12:13:50

I shall be recognising international women's day with a new pair of high heals and evening dress
I'll need to ask dh first obv. hmm

HumphreyCobbler Fri 08-Mar-13 12:15:51

ffs

Mitchy1nge Fri 08-Mar-13 12:16:11

heals a bit more like it than bonprix grin

chocoluvva Fri 08-Mar-13 12:17:02

YABVU - those tops are this season's must-have pastels or something like that

ick

Mitchy1nge Fri 08-Mar-13 12:20:04

thought this season was all monochrome?

caramelwaffle Fri 08-Mar-13 12:22:21

startail I think you are totally correct.

Startail Fri 08-Mar-13 12:25:47

Trouble is as a SAHM I do feel, a bit, I'd have to ask to make a decent donation to a women's charity, but I never ask to buy clothes.

I was on the mailing list for a few years having bought something once, it seems to have stopped now. It was a bizarre mixture of frumpy tops and crotchless underwear.

Although I accept that my last post also misses the point. Who says we don't need feminism anymore?

kalidanger Fri 08-Mar-13 12:44:03

And now the Bon Prix ads are haunting the sidebar of MyFitnessPal angry

FrothyDragon Fri 08-Mar-13 12:51:30

Get adblocker, kalid. That should fix that issue... ;)

Startail Fri 08-Mar-13 13:24:37

Yes it's totally bizarre, as I get Emails because it had not pink, not mini prostitute age 10-12 girls clothes. but the underwear is very dodgy.

Now a campaign for decent preteen clothes is a rant for another thread.

It's just popped up on the sidebar of my Yahoo mail too, big brother really is watching us (either that or it's been there all the time and I've never noticed it)

WilsonFrickett Fri 08-Mar-13 14:12:18

But ladies, you miss the point!

It's not a myth!
Courts can be chic and comfortable!!!

Dear god and the little fishes is one of the underwear models wearing a tiara to her bed????? Takes the princes shit to a whole new level. (And presumably is a bit sore.)

Startail Fri 08-Mar-13 15:44:05

No big brother really is watching us, I get stuff in my side bars that I know is because Google spies on the links you follow.

Drove me mad because it always seems to be either something daft of here or something you have bought and don't need again.

WhentheRed Fri 08-Mar-13 19:56:24

When I was young, I always believed that adage that old age mellowed people. Yet, for a number of women I knew it seemed they became angrier and more radical as they got older. Now I understand why. For every gain we make, there is a backlash - a reminder not to forget what society really thinks of us. Some days I think I have woken up in an alternate reality where Betty Friedan, Gloria Steinem, Audre Lorde and all other pioneers never existed. I don't want cheap, lacy underwear, with a tiara. I want equality for girls and women across the globe.

Trekkie Fri 08-Mar-13 21:19:44

OMFG that advert.

Jesus.

Startail Sat 09-Mar-13 21:47:03

whenthered too right, I was a trouser wearing, chopper style riding Tom boy in the '70s.

The pink frilly, high heeled over made up dolly bird 'role models' in the media today for my DDs make me shock

That we still don't have equal graduate pay and or female bishops makes me angry

That religions that treat women even more like objects seem to be getting more and more powerful makes very, very angry indeed.

I'd have hoped my DDs wouldn't have to be feminists, but I think the bigger battles are only just beginning.

Lessthanaballpark Sat 09-Mar-13 22:04:03

I think IWD misses the point of IWD.

There shouldn't be just one day a year when people discuss the prevalence of sexual violence, harassment and the like. It should be discussed every day in incredulous disbelief that it's actually still happening until it stops. We shouldn't need an IWD. We're a majority being treated like a minority.

Besides IWD allows the antis whine about there not being an international man's day.

Sorry if that all sounds a bit grumpy!

Startail Sat 09-Mar-13 23:33:31

Not grumpy at all.

I'm to much a very liberal conservative, (think American Democrat, with a bit of free market economics thrown in) to feel totally comfortable with IWDs very socialist roots.

Everyday should be respect for everyone day, regardless of gender, race or sexual orientation day.

TheDoctrineOfSnatch Sun 10-Mar-13 02:12:36

Interesting thread, thanks!

BettyBlueBlue Sun 10-Mar-13 13:18:53

Capitalism always finds a way to make peace with everybody and make a dollar from it. Just revamp, sex up and glamorise!

That shows you can put a spin on almost everything to make profit. Women's Day is not exception.

TrampyPants Sun 10-Mar-13 13:23:43

Lessthanaballpark Sat 09-Mar-13 22:04:03
I think IWD misses the point of IWD.

There shouldn't be just one day a year when people discuss the prevalence of sexual violence, harassment and the like. It should be discussed every day in incredulous disbelief that it's actually still happening until it stops. We shouldn't need an IWD. We're a majority being treated like a minority.

Besides IWD allows the antis whine about there not being an international man's day.

Yes!! although, I have had fun telling the whaddaboutdamenz-ers that International Mens Day is on the 19th November. It ties in with Movember and promotes male role models, mens health such as prostate cancer and male breast cancer, and male contributions to childcare and gender equality. If they don't know about it, that's not the fault of Nasty Feminists.

TrampyPants Sun 10-Mar-13 13:24:34

sorry for derail, btw.

I had a similar email op. v frustrating.

Lessthanaballpark Sun 10-Mar-13 19:32:45

Trampy, that's a very interesting piece of info, thanks!

TheDoctrineOfSnatch Sun 17-Mar-13 12:15:52

I saw a pink bus covered in lipstick kisses promoting IWD. Heigh ho!

notimefors Sun 17-Mar-13 13:54:41

I got sent pictures of muscley women with foreign words superimposed over the top from different parts of the world. And feminist graffiti photos. They were all great!

(Just to add something cheery.)

notimefors Sun 17-Mar-13 13:55:58

(Not body builders, just strong-looking I meant.)

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