DH and I got married in June. I kept my name, for a variety of reasons but feminism being a key one. We've received a number of items addressed to [DHfirstname][Puffinfirstname][DHlastname] and one from an acquaintance who did the Mr&Mrs [DHinitial DHlastname] thing. Whilst I am generally quite ranty, I do realise my choice is still unusual and am prepared to accept people get these things wrong.
We pointed out to FIL and his wife that I'd kept my name when they got it wrong and all seemed fine. They spent Christmas with us and the conversation turned to the number of people called [DHlastname] in the world. FIL's wife asked how many there were "apart from us four". I commented that I didn't have DHlastname. "No but you could" was the answer... I overlooked that one for the love of peace, but she has just sent us a thank you card addressed to Mr&Mrs [DHinitial DHlastname]. I am fucking furious! She knows my choices in the matter and has clearly decided to ignore them! I'm also not a Mrs! FFS, I don't address stuff to Ms Maiden name when sending it to her to make a point, why can't she just respect my choices?!?! Not sure how to respond to this, she'll probably just say the envelope was too small or something...
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Puffinitee · 07/01/2017 10:57
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