Simple question - have you ever said "fuck me harder"

(129 Posts)
BeyondPolkadots Sat 15-Oct-16 14:22:04

That's it

Me - yes.

QuiteLikely5 Sat 15-Oct-16 14:24:44

I think this is a question more suited to a porn chat room not a forum like this.

MidnightVelvetthe7th Sat 15-Oct-16 14:25:01

Yes. I have said to different partners at different times.

What I have never said was: fuck me harder all the men I will possibly meet in the future, this extends to you all no matter how unconscious I am. Plus I'm not a virgin so I'm clearly a slag & therefore unrapeable.

TheCaptainsCat Sat 15-Oct-16 14:25:30

Yes!

venusinscorpio Sat 15-Oct-16 14:26:00

Yes, many times.

bloodymaria Sat 15-Oct-16 14:26:15

Why do you ask?

Cockblocktopus Sat 15-Oct-16 14:27:21

Yep

FrancisHouseman Sat 15-Oct-16 14:28:25

Yes.

RandomDent Sat 15-Oct-16 14:31:33

No.

AyeAmarok Sat 15-Oct-16 14:34:52

Yep, or variations of.

I think I have said variations of this (just like she said "go harder" to one of the paid-for witnesses) to nearly all of my sexual partners at some stage.

Marbleheadjohnson Sat 15-Oct-16 14:35:07

Yes. Also had kinky consensual sex in many positions. I have also been raped more than once. I never reported it, and recent events have crystallised my own reasons for why I was reluctant to.

What about a man who rapes his wife? "Well she said she liked it before, she asked me to go harder. She said it this time you're accusing me of raping her too, so I can't possibly have raped her"

GiveMeRitz Sat 15-Oct-16 14:37:03

Yeap

Oh and lots of other stuff 'cause even women don't always want the strokey feathery shite. Sometime we (well I at least) want here and now, fast & hard just plain sex, a shag, a fuck…

So does that make me a adult women with a healthy sexual appetite…or a 'slag' who can't be raped?

BeyondPolkadots Sat 15-Oct-16 14:37:41

Quite and bloody, it has been used in the defence of a rape trial (if you don't know about it, tbh i'd stay away as it's depressing). I'm not just asking for a hairy handed wank grin

ImperialBlether Sat 15-Oct-16 14:38:18

Exactly - the position she was in and the words she allegedly said were no different to those used by women all over Britain. You'd think she'd given some secret code or asked for something that nobody had ever asked for.

Bitofacow Sat 15-Oct-16 14:39:30

Yes

And I clearly meant it was OK for any man to "fuck me harder" from that point onwards. Anyone at all. Yep anybody. Who ever, when ever. Say it once and it applies for the rest of your life. Let's hope I never end up in court. Us silly women and our silly expressions.

Grrrrrrrr

littlebeps Sat 15-Oct-16 14:42:39

Yes

BombadierFritz Sat 15-Oct-16 14:44:26

yes
I was obviously gagging for it with any random passing rapist.

Xenophile Sat 15-Oct-16 14:51:05

Yes.

Which apparently means that anyone can break into my room while I'm having sex with someone else and help themselves.

I've had drunken one night stands and I've been raped, so I'm well aware of the difference. I'm glad I didn't report and will think twice before suggesting any other woman does either, especially if she's not a fluttering virgin.

My violent, abusive ex wouldn't need a £50k bribe to slag me off in court either, he'd be positively slavering to do it.

cadnowyllt Sat 15-Oct-16 14:53:00

Objection ! your Honour, Leading question

venusinscorpio Sat 15-Oct-16 14:55:35

Have you ever said "fuck me harder, cadno?"

BeyondPolkadots Sat 15-Oct-16 14:58:11

Thanks for the link, in case anyone didn't know what a leading question is.

Didn't realise we were in court either, but <meh>

cadnowyllt Sat 15-Oct-16 15:01:03

Have you ever said "fuck me harder, cadno?"

No - I can't recall saying it.

MagicalRealist Sat 15-Oct-16 15:03:56

Yes. On separate occasions and with different partners. Ditto having sex 'doggy style'. And expressing myself confidently.

I hadn't realised that this was notably deviant behaviour.

venusinscorpio Sat 15-Oct-16 15:04:02

Just wondering what your input is then.

Bitofacow Sat 15-Oct-16 15:06:20

"Expressing yourself confidently", you're really asking for it young lady.

Mini skirt????

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