Sex with an ex I no longer love??

[Mummasbigsmiles]

I have recently been in contact with an ex partner over text.... I no longer love him, but our sex was amazing... We are talking about just having a completely casual sexual relationship, no nights over, no dates. We are both single. Is this the right thing to do? I was thinking its not hurting anyone and no one would find out. We had an 8 year relationship and broke off last year, we were extremely close and split amicably. Help??

[IzzyIsBusy]

I am sorry but not sure anyone can help.

Given your long history and only a 12 month break up i am not sure the just sex no feelings thing will work for either of you.

Would that then cause pain when one of you cared more than the other?
Exes are exes for a reason. I believe they should stay that way.

[OlennasWimple]

I'm not really a fan of relationships where it's important that "no one can find out"

[PreemptiveSalvageEngineer]

Genuinely wondering why this isn't in Relationships...

[maggiethemagpie]

There's no way I'd be able to keep my emotions separate in this kind of situation. Sounds like a recipe for getting hurt to me.