Can you help me understand why men sexually abuse. I've experienced a range from a pretty awful rape by a friend - to, in longterm marriage, a low level level of coercion and ignoring consent over certain small acts - and in years past experiences that fall in between like unwanted drunken sex.
This is just background to my post. I'm less concerned about addressing my individual circumstances, more in hearing thoughts about why men do this.
It seems to me like a lot of men to different degrees ignore or push the boundaries re consent. (Not all of course)
Are there explanations or understandings of this, including in a wider context, I don't know exactly what I'm asking. I just want to understand a bit more, like has this always been an issue throughout history? Was it understood differently? What is the link to gender roles? To biology? Are the different ends of the spectrum about the same thing?
I couldn't see another thread addressing this but happy to be directed.
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Why do (some) men sexually abuse/rape?
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tryingtomakesenseoflife · 18/07/2016 06:20
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