Father shuns household tasks
DM I know (in my defence I actually have to read the DM for work, which is both great and depressing in equal measures) but... I'm lost for words. Though not surprised, after some of the stuff I read on here.
Now I don't want to start a bunfight but it does get me thinking, is it someone's fault? Surely someone who gets away with doing nothing around the house at all gets away with it because someone else does it for them, and that someone else just gets on with the shit jobs and doesn't force their partner to help out. I'll say partner, though tbh it does seem more like men than women who avoid the boring household work.
Without picking on the people in the article, one woman blames her mother in law for mollycoddling her husband. Which it very much sounds like she does. But it got me thinking - is there someone to "blame"? (Apologies for using the words 'blame' and 'fault', I know it is not as clearcut as all that but my brain is refusing to work properly this morning and find the word I want). Is it mothers who have done everything for their DC and not taught them they need to pull their weight around the house? Is it partners who accept that their OH isn't pulling their weight around the house?
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Thurlow · 13/01/2016 10:12
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