I don't even know if this is a feminist issue, but I had no idea where to put it.
Some things have been happening IRL, not to me, but to a family member who is also a neighbour. Domestic abuse. Violence and emotional. Really fucking nasty stuff. It has sort of triggered things for me, because I have been through similar. It has taken me back, kind of, to those feelings.
Since I went through it I have become more aware of the issues surrounding DA, and toxic relationships in general. I have dealt with my issues, and sorted out my warped thinking. Sadly, IRL right now it feels like I am the only one who has any grasp on reality.
The victim blaming that has been going on, from someone I consider to be my best friend, has sickened me. The general lack of awareness of this stuff, the stuff that is discussed all the time on MN, is astonishing.
There is this real attitude that women are bringing it upon themselves, and the men don't seem to be getting a hard time at all.
Does anyone else see this or is it just me?
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sliceofsoup · 04/09/2015 17:20
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