I have a new friend at work - lovely guy, we get on well. Not attracted to each other, both in serious relationships. But I feel a bit uncomfortable being friends with him. Like I wouldn't go out for a drink with just him, but do with women colleagues. And I'm trying to figure out why I'm uncomfortable about it. So, I guess my questions are:
Is it unreasonable to expect that I can be just friends with a man?
Why (when rumours start) is it usually the woman who gets judged harshly?
Is this all part of society's apparent attitude that men always want sex with all women, and that women are morally responsible for controlling access to sex?
Didn't really know where to post this, but this board has been great for helping me figure things in the past (before the name change), so thanks in advance for any insights.
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AmeliaNeedsHelp · 06/07/2015 22:21
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