Everyday sexism...? Or am I being oversensitive?
DM is almost 50 and had a fertility/menopause test to find out if she's going through the menopause as she has been suffering from anxiety and wondered if that might be the cause. The GP called and told her "unfortunately" the test results show she is post menopausal. DM was baffled as she is certainly not intending on trying for a baby and didn't know why it's such "unfortunate" news...
I guess he was trying to be sympathetic but it annoys me that he made the assumption this would require sympathy? If anything, it's good news for her. If he'd looked at her medical file surely it would be clear that she had the test for a reason other than wanting to conceive?
I do understand some women might be hoping to conceive and the doctor has to be sensitive to their feelings, but isn't it really sexist to assume a natural part of womanhood is bad news, as if being post-menopausal means you're suddenly out-of-date? In case you can't tell, I was a bit miffed when she told me about all this.
Is this what I have to look forward to myself in 20 or so years time? 'Poor you, isn't it a shame you're no longer young and fertile?"
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"Unfortunately you have gone through the menopause" - everyday sexism?
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Flingmoo · 11/06/2015 16:21
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