So, just looked at this; and made the mistake of looking at the comments, many of which were so beyond the pale the Guardian mods have removed them. Anyway, the thing is, Michael Fabricant 'joked' about punching Yasmin Alibhai-Brown in the throat. Because she's so annoying. Of course there is a minor shit storm about it, but his line and that of his defenders is of course I didn't mean it literally. Which I do believe but don't buy as a full stop on such matters. I've heard this argument in a lot of contexts and want to rehearse how to express how very inadequate it is, and why it's not acceptable to employ figurative violence even 'as a joke,' and what role such 'jokes' take in the patriarchy.
One thing I did think was this is a way of reminding women of the tenuousness of their safety; granted through the graciousness of men, don't overstep your mark! And also, that it is almost a "say what you like, I'm the privileged one here" because it names the violence of female oppression. It's like Fabricant insinuating that she might win an argument but he'd win a fight (only because she hasn't been to my staff class yet, btw). And my question to people who say stuff like, I didn't mean it literally! Is, well what did you mean, then?
Help me rehearse how to reason this out?
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Can we talk about the line, "I didn't mean it literally"
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OutsSelf · 20/06/2014 12:59
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