This isn't exactly a feminist issue - well, it sort of is because, as usual, it's pressure on girls to look good etc - but I need somewhere to let off steam!
Making plans for daughter to attend Year 11 prom next month - OMG - who invented this nonsense, what was wrong with the end of term disco?? I have resisted as much of the pressure and expense as possible (she is doing her own hair/make-up/nails and is being transported to the event in friend's Dad's car done up with balloons) and I have been extremely fortunate to find an evening dress in the sales reduced form over £200 to £80, and a friend is going to take the hem up for free. But, still, the whole peer pressure/extravaganza is ridiculous! Why do they have to have evening dresses?? Also my daughter does not attend a posh private school, just an ordinary state comprehensive.
How/when did all of this start? And why have the schools supported it?The trouble is, it's so established, it seems, and so taken for granted that all the girls will be involved in this, that it is very difficult to be the parent who says, "No, you are 16, I am not doing this!" Well, I didn't feel I could refuse or make a stand anyway. I love my daughter, I don't want her to be sad and not involved in something all her firends are involved in, but I don't agree with it.
Am I just a horrible, miserly, humourless parent?
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rosabud · 30/04/2013 19:29
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