Is it me? and am fully prepared to be told it is just me. But I struggle with the term 'lady'.
I was chatting to a mate of mine the other day (male) and he called me a true lady. I can't remember why. But it made me cringe. To me, I am a woman, and calling me a lady because I might have behaved in a certain way... well to me - it seems like well - you are a woman, but if you behave in a certain way, usually a bit self effacing, feminine characteristics and such-like - then you are elevated to the status of 'lady' it's a 'compliment' that you should aspire to? It's like there are two tiers of women - those that behave appropriately - and those that don't - and being termed a lady is a reward for the former..
Arrghh! am not coming across very well...
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pixwix · 06/10/2012 00:30
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