And I have a bit of a problem with it, I was hoping by discussing it here you could help me figure out why I feel so uneasy with or if there's anything I can do about it
I have five boys and one girl, she is six. And as the title states she is often found cleaning up after her brothers. She loves to help tidy and always keeps her room clean, and is often found tidying her brothers rooms when they are supposed to be doing it. She is also very good at anything like that whereas the boys are pretty useless. If someone spills something she will jump up to take care of it, she even does a little head shake with an indulgent smile at the boys! She looks for all the world like a mini 50's housewife who has to take care of 'her boys'
Now I know she's only young, and know it'll probably all change soon, but I just can't figure out why she is behaving in such a stereotypical way, and it bugs me not least because I think that most people will assume we have 'trained' her to be that way
What makes it really puzzling is that in our house it is DH who does all the domestic duties, and we also have equal chores/responsibilities set by age so all of the children are treated equally. I just don't understand where this is coming from, and while it could simply be a personality thing it seems too much of a coincidence that out if six children it would the one girl who would behave like this
So am I barking up the wrong tree here?
Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
My daughter cleans up after my sons
maytheoddsbeeverinyourfavour · 30/06/2012 11:41
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