Child abuse is reported
The Police Investigate
Bail conditions are the province of the police, but they can be so open you cant even go to the local shop
The CPS Prosecute (but the victim and family isnt allowed to speak to them)
SS come around and if the parents safeguard the children from their abuser, within the family close their books on the matter
Safeguarding the children outside the family, is not their concern
CAHMS are involved with mental health matters
GP is involved with physical health and referring to CAHMS
A Charity (if you are lucky) provides an ISVA to assist your child (not you they dont have the resources) through the court process
Then at some point, if you have the money or can wait 18 months, you can have a counsellor
Victim Support - well meant but frankly, useless
Witness Care - see above
Education, none of these things are their concern, they just follow the strict admission criteria, and if there is no criteria for social need, none of the above is taken into account
Who is responsible for the over all picture NO ONE, who helps the victim and their family to join it all together, no one at all.
If you allow the abuser to remain in the family home/in contact with the children, then social services remain involved, so you get more help if you fail to protect your children.
And this is the system that is suppose to help us, it sucks.
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