There is a storyline in Coranation Street at the mo involving a man called Paul who is a carer for his wife who has Alzheimers and Paul is having a relationship with someone else.
I am a carer for my husband who has been disabled for the past 6 years.
We havent slept together for 16 years. His choice.
9 years ago i had an affair and my OWN mother blamed me saying that the reason that my husband didnt want to touch me is cos i had an affair even though i made it very clear that he hadnt touched me for 7 years previous to the affair.
I guess what im saying or asking is why is much more expected of female carers than male carers.
Female carers are expected to keep thier legs closed and their mouths shut as well as shut down all their emotions.
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To think that if th corrie storyline involved a female carer instead of a male one the reactions would be different.
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carernotasaint · 26/03/2012 23:09
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