Why don't our families feel the need to ask DH this?
What do they think I should give up/cut back on work to do?
And why is it so important that they feel the need to remind me by asking each and every time they see me?
Background: It's a male-dominated industry I work in so I may be a little unusual but surely knowing the effort it would have taken for me to put up with years of sexist crap get here (depite - shock - having a uterus) why would they then assume I'd be chomping at the bit to give it up as soon as TP junior arrived?
Why don't they feel the need to badger my SIL in the same way? Is it because she has a traditionally 'female' job and I don't so am therefore in danger of melting my pretty little brain with all this manly thinking?
Or is it simply because I look more like I could afford to go part time (unsurprisingly and depressingly my traditionally 'male' job pays better than her's)?
And why is it almost always the women in the family who ask this? FCOL they all worked when they had children (though again in more traditionally 'female' roles). I can't give them short shrift or start questioning them back without looking like a nob. Traitors!
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ToffeePenny · 25/10/2011 17:42
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