I had a good career before having children, was made redundent when pregnant with dd1 so decided to take a few years off, went back to work for a year when dd2 started nursery but was made redundant again. after this we as a family decided that for the forseeable future I would stay at home, now both dc's are in school a lot of people seem qute horrified that I am not looking for paid work, I do all the housework, look after the dc's and the dogs, I clean my elderly grans flat and help out at school. As a family we are all very happy with the arrangement, less work for dh, plenty of chill out time for me and lots of time with dc.
I dont know if/when I will look at going back to work but basically I would not get back to the level I was at before dc and would probably look to retrain in something that actually interests me (was in banking before). So have I sold out? Have I wasted my education? I dont feel as though I have, I feel as though happiness is the ultimate goal and we as a family are very happy with the situation we are in.
Thee other point would be that i am no longer independent and if anything was to happen with dh I would find myself having to work in a much lower paid job than I was previously in.
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