Hello, I hope I can get this question across, it's been buzzing around my head for a while, and I feel it is an important subject.
I have always been regarded as reasonably attractive, in my younger years I was waif-like and drew a lot of attention, now as a 30 yo mother of 2, less so.
My problem is that I have always attached a lot of my self worth to appearance and as I become more 'anonymous' as a sexually attractive woman I find myself becoming more and more down on myself.
I KNOW it's alright not be a size 8, I KNOW it's nothing to be ashamed of that I don't have a flat stomach, or have dimpled thighs. I KNOW that I am a desired wife and generally a good person, so why do I feel so miserable about it?
I am getting to a stage where I am thinking about this a lot, and I hate that despite my logic I constantly compare myself to celebrities, to women on the street, to members of my family. I am not a shallow person, so why does this matter so much to me, and more importantly what can I do about it?
Does anyone have any thoughts on this subject? Perhaps some suggested reading material about the media manipulation of women to attach so much value to our looks?
Feminism: Sex & gender discussions
Help me accept myself as an attractive woman
Lulabellarama · 23/05/2011 13:31
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