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Patronising or what?

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Thistledew · 12/04/2011 08:11



I can't quite work out why this annoys me so much. Thoughts?

There is the rather obvious use of past tense for starters ...
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Reality · 12/04/2011 08:15

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ForkfulOfEasterEgg · 12/04/2011 08:27

Go Reality!

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claig · 12/04/2011 08:36

'I can't quite work out why this annoys me so much. Thoughts?'

Possibly because they read the Guardian, believe in global warming and the need to 'save the planet'.

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SardineQueen · 12/04/2011 08:36

Only watched the first min but seriously PMSL

Thank you Grin

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dittany · 12/04/2011 08:38

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Thistledew · 12/04/2011 08:48

That use of the past tense: "women have been oppressed", but never mind, we don't have to acknowledge they still are because we have made a smarmy video saying how we think women are such amazing goddesses (but not just average, flawed, human beings, because then they would not be special enough for us to make all these promises to).

Did this not occur to ANY of the men in the video? I despair.

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claig · 12/04/2011 08:49

It's another con. They are sensitive, they are caring, they are conscious, they read the Guardian and they will lead the new consciousness movement to create a 'global economics' and to create a 'new way of being'.

They 'mistakenly believed that expansion would protect them from encroachment and in the process they violated the sanctity of the earth and its natural rhythms'. They are snake oil salesmen, they want to make 'miracles', they are as green as they come, they are wolves in sheep's clothing, they are con men.

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claig · 12/04/2011 09:00

How come there are so many of them on their manufactured video? It looks like they have leaders, it looks organised, it looks like a movement. They quote all the BS you read and hear in right on political circles. It is political, it is right on, that is why it's a con.

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EggyFucker · 12/04/2011 09:11

...they are beardy twats

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BertieBotts · 12/04/2011 09:16

My mum posted this on facebook the other day. I was tempted to repost here and say WTF.

Knowing my Mum (and she is lovely :)) it will be about how female energy used to be all-powerful in the time of Atlantis and male energy has overpowered and crushed that female energy, but a time of balance is coming and other assorted wank...

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Beachcomber · 12/04/2011 09:28

Did anybody else want to cattle prod the whole lot of them every time they said the word 'feminine'?

I'm not feminine you dickheads. I'm a human being.

They just got it so so wrong didn't they with all that sexist blinkered patriarchal crap about worshipping our beauty and femininity?

Fuck off you privileged narcissistic wankers - I don't want your chivalrous worship of my femininity. Femininity is my prison - it is a tool to oppress me.

Your apology doesn't count for shit if you don't actually understand what you are apologising for. Anyway - I don't want a creepy apology that just sounds like you are trying to get into my pants put me on a pedestal of femininity. I want you to stop with the oppressing already.

This is just New Misogynist.

Sheesh.

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Beachcomber · 12/04/2011 09:49

"Unconscious masculine" "I'm aware of the forces of the unconscious masculine psyche"

Fuck off.

This is one of the most sexist, entitled, controlling, manipulative, self absolving, dishonest, egotistical, self satisfied, morally incontinent pieces of patriarchal bullshit I have seen in a long time.

Did anybody else feel really unsettled by the wholly fucking inappropriate and gratuitous images witch burning and child prostitutes?

Wankers.

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sethstarkaddersmackerel · 12/04/2011 09:52

oh FeMNists, I love you so much Grin

I haven't watched it yet but I HATE it when people idealize femininity. Ian McEwan does it all the time in his books.

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Earthymama · 12/04/2011 09:55

I follow a woman on FB and her 'thing' has always been about the strength and courage women find to challenge all the oppression and prejudice they face daily.
Recently it's all been about bringing men on board, engaging with their feminine side etc etc. I guess it's our role as nurturers? Smile
I just thought she must be in love or lust!!
However, I thought how hard it is to have this world view and live with men!

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InmaculadaConcepcion · 12/04/2011 10:04


Nice of them to apologise on behalf of their sex Hmm

I felt like a lot of it was them saying "sorry we've been accidentally shitty to you".....

So that's all right, then.
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Beachcomber · 12/04/2011 10:11

Oh and bet these obliviousness knobheads think that our ladybrains will be flooded with gratitude, and we will be so admiring of them forgiving themselves for centuries of oppression (that was never their fault in the first place), that we will swoon with thankfulness. (To our knees, they hope.)

Ooh they have got right on my wick.

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sethstarkaddersmackerel · 12/04/2011 10:12

you've been on very good form lately Beachcomber. Wink

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Beachcomber · 12/04/2011 10:18

Thank you seth. Grin

I'm in the process of moving out of my house in order to do some major work to it - this is what happens when I have too much to do and am a bit stressed. I let loose here a bit rather than face the mountain of tasks.

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givequicheachance · 12/04/2011 10:52

Eew. I need a shower.

Creepy and so, so wrong.

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SpringchickenGoldBrass · 12/04/2011 10:55

Bwaghahaha! Knobbers.

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stream · 12/04/2011 10:58

'...they are beardy twats'

Grin Grin Grin

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