The quotation in the title comes from a (woman) student doing the same course as me. She thinks women are just too modest and that's why they don't end up doing the prestigious, visible jobs.
I think that society sets the boundary between 'boasting' and 'healthy self-promition' in different places for men and for women. I expect many people here agree with me. So, I was wondering if anyone has insights into why we accept this (if we do), and how we challenge it (if we do).
My motivation for this thread was receiving the Old Members newsletter from my university - filled with men recording their latest promotions and publications. The youngest entry was a guy who's a little younger than me, and when I saw him, I congratulated him. It didn't occur to him to ask me how I was doing, and when a mutual friend came up and said, 'so, I hear you're doing well', he immediately responded with a potted history.
Our friend admitted just now that she'd been addressing me, but she thinks that women are too 'modest' and don't self promote, which is why our male friend jumped in to reply.
It got me thinking that, although I think of myself as a feminist, I'm obviously not doing a very good job of communicating that in my professional life, and need some help!
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'Women are just too modest': Are men better at self promoting - or is this bollocks?!
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JaneS · 15/12/2010 20:56
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