MrsClown, the men that 'jeer' at women upon leaving a strip club are probably the men that leer at women from their car wondowss in summer, their ladders when doing building work, or from across crowded bars. It is ridiculous to BLAME lapdancing joints for this rudeness.
Furthermore, the jeering men that you spot leaving the clubs are the only ones that you notice because they are the ones behaving badly. What about the polite, well mannered man leaving behind them without drawing attention to himself? If you have never worked in a lap dancing club (unlike MamaJoJo, who has one of the best knowledges of the industry you are likely to find - google her) then how can you POSSIBLY make an informed comment on the behaviour of what goes on in there? You are speculating and are in no position to be taken seriously as you are an outsider merely guessing at how men regularly behave inside these places.
As for the women complaining about merely having to walk past them and - even more ridiclously - worrying about the damage that might be done to their children as they pass the premises: you need to be less hysterical. Firstly, strict laws givern these premises and there will be absolutely zero sign of naked women/their photos on the outside. Secondly, no one is forcing you to go in, so why are you so offended at having to merely walk past? I don't agree with gambling, but I don't insist that betting shops are closed down.
My next point is that only women who are exploited are the ones forced into the sex trade, and if you Google the scientific research done in this country, it's actually quite rare. The many women who choose to work in strip joints because they like what they do are not exploited. They are chosing what they want to do with their bodies, and that, for me, is partly what feminism is about.
Finally, women have to accept that not all other women share their views, and having a stong moral stance about something does not make it right. Some women feel uncomfortable with their bodies. Some only feel comfortable baring all in front of their partners. A few are happy to bare their bodies very freely, even to strangers. Equally, many men enjoy looking at female bodies, and some enjoy it so much that they actively seek to do so by visiting places where women happy to do so, do. It is a mutual exchange, and if you feel that men who partake in this are degrading to women, then don't date one. However, don't try to force your wishes upon the many women and men who disagree with your views.