I get married in six weeks time. Our ceremony won't be legally binding (we are going to the register office a few days afterwards) and we don't have anyone "in charge" so we are doing it all ourselves.
Now, we have had enough dillemmas about whether or not to get married in the first place and it all seems slightly silly, but then we are not the types to turn down the oppurtunity to dress up and have a party, and we have gone a bit morbid lately, so wedding it is.
What do I do about my Dad though? Him "giving me away" is daft in so many ways, not least that we can be quite vocal feminists (eg I will be breastfeeding baby Emmeline Christabel Petra at the wedding) but also...well, I'm hardly the blushing bride in the first flush of young love- me and DP have two children together!
BUT- if I don't ask my Dad to "give me away" then he will see it as a massive insult, and, really, the whole thing is quite silly anyway once you think about it, one little tradition isn't the only silly thing.
At first I suggested that we both get given away by both our parents, but DP vetoed that on the grounds that he is divorced so, if anything, his ex should do it, and she quire reasonably wouldn't be up for that (not that we have asked)
Any ideas?
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Butterpie · 12/07/2010 09:33
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