I dont send anyone one,my gran tries to tell me to but i dont feel like its something I need to do.I wont be expecting any if i get married I thought it was just between a wife and husband?You know the old I didnt get anything in my anniversary as the husband firgot thing.
I never do (made an exception for their Golden Wedding anniversary) - and I don't like getting WA cards myself as I think it is just a personal celebration between DH & DW ! However my DB & DSIL love getting WA cards so my mum complains that she has to remember to send them one but not send us one .
I used to when I was a child, dropped out of the habit when I left home, they have never said anything, but they do send us one, which there is no need for at all. I doubt my DCs know when our anniversary is to be honest.
Do you have siblings, do they send cards to your parents? Could you sound them out?
Just out of curiosity is it the norm to buy out parents a wedding anniversary card. My mum always gives me a sarky comment every year and I've never taken it seriously until this year and thought, do I get them a card or not?