Books on parenting for 3yrs+...

[rosiejoy]

looking for guidance/inspiration...

ds is three and all the books on toddlers seem to young for him. He is a very lively little boy, endless energy and can be very loving and affectionate, but also v.obstinate and angry. Looking for parenting books to read, and also books with activites...

I like routines, they work well with him, he is happy when he knows what's happening and likes to take an active part in the household then. We dont have a tv, but have dvd player and internet, but I dont like him having access to these and am planning to buy new furniture that keep them out of reach!

I like outdoor activities for children, not put off by bad weather! Also, prefer parenting methods that rule by love rather than fear IYSWIM. I want to encourage him, build his confidence and independance rather than simply make him obey rules, but in practical terms I think I am probably somewhere in between the two.

So.....with all this in mind, can anyone suggest some books I might like/find useful?

[bigchris]

tbh it sounds to me like you are doing fab without books

you could try how to talk so kids will listen if you really want something to read

[rosiejoy]

secondcoming can you tell me a bit more? tbh found the website bit offputting- all the workbooks etc I spose...maybe a little structured for me. Also, found it difficult to get a sense of what it's really 'about'. Is it preparing children for school?

thanks bigchris suspect it may be my confidence as much as ds i need to work on!