I am preparing for my diet/healthy eating plan (starting properly in Lent) and have a real problem with this issue.
My dh loves food. He loves buying it, loves cooking it and loves preparing delicious things to eat. All wonderful you might say, but not when we are both overweight and not when I have the willpower of a recalcitrant slug.
I know that I am solely responsible for what I put in my own mouth. But dieting is so much harder when someone is continually buying and preparing (sometimes) calorific foods.
We actually eat fairly healthily, but about twice as much as we should. The added complication is that we have a dd who needs to put on weight.
How would you/do you handle it?
(a) tell no one you are dieting. Eat normally but cut down dramatically on portion size.
(b) buy and prepare food for yourself separately from that of your oh
We have tried in the past to work together on a joint dieting venture but we are very different and it hasn't worked. (He is in the right frame of mind to diet, I am not or vice versa. He likes high fat foods and I don't. I like sugary foods, he doesn't etc etc. He finds it difficult to give up alcohol, I don't etc) But when I start my own diet separately, and buy my own foods, he will still bring fattening cakes and biscuits home etc.
Any other ideas/tips/advice? Thank you!
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Does anyone have any tips about dieting when your partner or oh is obsessed with food and cooking and is forever buying and serving up delicious food/meals?
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Slowcommotion · 25/01/2015 15:26
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