My h2b suffers from anxiety and ptsd.... he had his stag do this weekend, and despite his friends (who were told he was having treatment for anxiety and knows what had previously happened to him) promising casino and a few bars, it ended up a mix of humiliating dragging up and drinking challenges none of which he enjoyed and when he tried to say no he was met with accusations of how stupid/unfair he was being/ they'd given up their weekend/ he'd enjoy it if he tried harder.
The reason I know about it is because he has since had a breakdown, based on the weekends events, because of the nature of his anxiety he felt he couldn't say no anymore than he did, as he'd be made to feel even more of a turd than he already was.
Luckily we got a an appointment not long after he got home with a great emergency doctor who prevented a hospital admission. And he's now in two other types of meds and seems to be getting a bit more stable. He's off work sick for the foreseeable and is as bad as he's ever been in the 3 years we've been together.
However, we get married in 6 weeks and I don't want the ringleaders of his humiliation there. I mentioned this to my h2b but he immediately freaked out and is petrified of losing these friends. (I don't think they're 'Friends' treating him the way they did)
How can I prevent another breakdown/ humiliation/ uninvite them in the least stressful/dramatic way?
Any help very gratefully received!!!!
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Bettylovesspaghetti · 23/11/2016 13:20
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