So I've been engaged to my fiancé for 2 years but we've had such a stressful time we've not got round to booking anything for the wedding. We're finally at the point where we are ready to book and plan.
We are both happy with a small wedding ceremony with those people staying for the meal and then a larger reception in the eve but not huge.
My problem is can we not invite plus 1's to the ceremony but say they are welcome for the evening? We both have pretty large families and obviously we want our siblings other halves there but I'm talking about our cousins other halves etc.
I guess I should give a bit of background. My cousins in particular, we are not majorly close but feel we need to invite them, they are younger than me, the oldest 23 and the youngest coming up to 18 , they all have boyfriends/girlfriends but none married or have children etc. I've never met any of the partners and really don't want people we don't even know at the ceremony.
Our very close friends that will be at the ceremony (only a handful and all either bridesmaids or best man) we are close to them as couples, a few have children together and one couple is married so obviously I'm happy for them to be there as a couple.
Is this out of order to not invite extended family plus 1's? Or do you all think I need too?
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Mybugslife · 03/09/2016 20:15
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