I don't want to write an essay but just looking for advice or opinions about this situation.
I'm getting married in 3 months. My fiancé and I originally planned to get married abroad with close friends and family. My fiancé admitted he wanted a more traditional wedding as it was important for him to have all of his family and friends there so we have compromised.
We have kept the wedding as small as possible. 50 during the day and a further 20 on the night.
I have quite bad social anxiety and I struggle with new people, a lot of people and social situations in general so we agreed unless we know someone they aren't invited. Money is also a factor as we are paying for the wedding through savings and a lot of overtime.
We haven't invited the best man's girlfriend. We have only met her once and they are in a long distance relationship that has only been made official recently.
The best man has told my fiancé either his girlfriend is invited or he won't be coming and their friendship is over.
I don't really know what to do about this. If I don't stand my ground then I will have to invite other people's partners or be feeling anxious and uncomfortable on my wedding day.
My fiancé is upset but standing by my decision but I do feel really bad about it. What would you do in this situation? I feel like his best man is dictating who we invite and I don't understand how his girlfriend can be that upset she doesn't even know us.
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MargaretCatwood · 08/06/2016 19:58
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