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fairyfeatures · 15/09/2015 10:33

Do you send them to evening guests also?

Or would this cause an awkward moment where they think they have been invited to the daytime ceremony?

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sooperdooper · 15/09/2015 10:34

I wouldn't bother, unless you make it clear it's for the evening only

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AuntieStella · 15/09/2015 10:36

If you need to send them at all, just send them to the core people whose presence really matters to you.

To me, that would preclude anyone you are not inviting to see the actual wedding.

And I said 'if you need to send them at all' because you don't need to buy extra stationery for those closest to you, who you'll be in touch with anyhow.

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LizardBreath · 15/09/2015 11:06

I didn't send them to evening guests. Mainly as id be a bit gutted to save the date and then only be needed from 7pm! You could send save the evening?

Just nearly sent all our actual day / evening invites-I've found it for stressful that I imagined!

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fairyfeatures · 15/09/2015 11:13

I think I will just send to day guests in that case, thanks all.

I am just quite crafty I think AuntieStella and enjoy making things. Have a closet full of crap stationary and crafty bits!

Oh gosh Lizard - why the stress?