We have 40 spaces for the ceremony and wedding breakfast, and 100 for the reception.
We want only closest family and friends at the ceremony but DP's dad feels that every single last family member should be invited to the whole thing. This means 20 extra people on top in the day, and he has said that he will pay for them all. Me and DP don't want this as we see these family members very rarely and I've never even met some of them. His dad takes it very personally but I honestly think most of them won't expect to be invited to the day anyway - they are already invited to the reception - plus it's a Thursday just after Xmas so they probably won't come anyway as they hardly know us.
I don't know how best to deal with this, anyone got any advice or been in a similar situation? DP's sister said to just tell him no and have who we want there, but he's the kind of man that would stop speaking to us if we upset him (we love him to bits really, he's just very selfish and thinks throwing money around solves all problems even though he's not rich by any means!)
Just over a year to go and no guest list sorted yet. Please help before my head falls off!
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Moochops89 · 04/09/2015 19:18
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