I have a friend I have known for years. Since we were kids. I wouldn't say it was a rocky relationship but I haven't got over the fact she used to steal things from me when we were younger. Which I think is strange because she had more money than me..anyway.
I got engaged 2 years ago. We've set a date for December and I asked her to be my bridesmaid last June. Since then, she's got a new group of friends (friends who were at our school and I was never bad to them) but for some reason they think it's okay to troll me on Facebook. Today, in fact, I put a picture of a bridesmaids dress on her Facebook to see if she liked it and they all took the piss and just mocked our whole wedding. She just laughed along with them and I am left feeling quite hurt.
Over the past few months she's been very distant, and argumentative with others on Facebook, which she never did before. Not that I'm saying she shouldn't see her friends, she can see who she likes but I'm upset that she let's them speak to me this way. I haven't done anything to them. I used to put pictures of my son and me up and they even trolled them! Naturally I've deleted them but I'm still hurt that she didn't tell them to stop.
We have barely spoken in months and I don't really think I want her to be my bridesmaid anymore. She never makes the effort. I drove to her flat 50 miles away 2 weeks ago. All preplanned. The first thing she said to me was I couldn't stay ages but could I give her a lift back to our home town so she could meet up with her new pals. I ended up staying for 45 mins with my baby who had been stuck in the car for an hour and then had to drive her back here so she could see them.
I think she's bored of me, which I can live with. But how do I tell her I don't want to be a part of my special day?
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regretting my choice of bridesmaid
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starodyssey2015 · 06/05/2015 02:26
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