A bit of background: I have been with DP for 16 years and have one DD aged 6. DP would like to get married but I have never been keen. He is becoming keener (!) and I am tempted to agree because it will make him happy and some legal things seem clearer if married. However my major sticking point is the ceremony. I don't want the hassle both practical and family eg with guest lists and I don't want to spend a huge amount of money. But a simple ceremony with one or two guests doesn't seem right either.
So my brainwave today is this: I have a milestone birthday next summer. We could arrange a big party and invite friends and family. Then when everyone is there we could stand up and say something along the lines of 'thank you for coming and we thought we'd get married today as well so could everyone go to the garden/hall/whatever for the ceremony. Then follow with some kind of party. I would have to tell my mum before the day. She wouldn't be happy but would hopefully except. We wouldn't tell any other guests before the day.
What do you think? Is this mad? Or could it work?
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balancingfigure · 23/09/2013 13:40
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