My future in laws have shown little interest in our wedding and we are both a little bit hurt. DP is especially hurt as it is his family. We obviously don't expect it to be their number 1 priority as after all, it is our wedding but we would have thought they would have been a little interested.
Our engagement was met with enthusiasm. His family all seemed happy and excited. They expressed interest in doing various thing to help, coming to various appointments for dress shopping and venue hunting then about a week later they seemed to stop wanting any involvement at all.
By comparison my family have been really supportive. Not at our beck and call or anything as they have their own lives and that is not what we would expect, but supportive, willing to help with things, enthusiastic about taking part in things/helping out and giving suggestions.
I feel bad for DP as he is a bit baffled about what is going on with them and sad they don't seem remotely interested. I keep asking if they would like to come places but they tend not to respond to the text for a while and then decline.
I know we just have to accept it for the way it is but was just wondering if it is normal for the grooms family to act like this?
Sorry if I am a bit vague. I don't want to go into specific examples in case some family see this and get offended!
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How involved are/were your in laws in the wedding planning?
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Jellyhandsandfingers · 15/05/2013 19:50
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