Hi, Please can you help me?
My lovely partner of four years has just proposed to me and it's wonderful news. He proposed with a ring but it was too big so we went to change it.
When I was in the jewellers I found a different ring which was just beautiful. So different and lovely and it's the ring I want to wear for the rest of my life.
The ring my fiance chose was platinum, and that has a significance to me because my father (who has passed away) worked in a platinum mine, and it feels nice to have some reference to him in my wedding as he wont be there to give me away.
The ring I like is more expensive and in white gold. I have asked how much it would be to get it made in platinum and it would be around £650.
I work. We are complete equals, and I'm normally not materialistic at all, but I want the ring in platinum. Would it be acceptable for me to pay the extra £650 which I know my partner can't afford?
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Missy44 · 04/03/2012 15:56
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