I'm getting married in a few weeks and as we didn't want a huge fuss we're having a small civil ceremony in the morning, a lunch and then we're throwing a party in the evening for everyone else. There will be around 14 people at the wedding itself and around 75 in the evening.
Yesterday, my aunt who lives around 200 miles away, said neither they or my cousins would be coming because it's too far for an evening party. I do understand this and although she said she wasn't put out they hadn't been invited to the main wedding, I think she is a tad.
Her attitude has really upset me. It's almost like she can't be bothered to come even though the location of our wedding means there are lots of cheap B&Bs so they can stay over like most of our friends are doing.
In all honesty, I would've preferred to have got married on the quiet but we didn't want to upset our parents so what should be a stress-free occassion is now doing exactly what I didn't want it to - stress me out! Not to mention, costing us an arm and a leg.
I know I'm probably overreacting a bit but I went to all of my cousin's weddings and tbh, I'm a little pissed off.
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Family can't be bothered to attend wedding
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mumtorobbie · 16/05/2011 10:42
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