advice wanted on introducing solids(42 Posts)
DS is 16 weeks old. He was two weeks late. He is as strong little chap, has no problem holding his head up, has two teeth through, is picking things up and putting them in his mouth (teething toys etc) can just about turn a page of a board book.
He sits in his highchair and watches intently while we eat and makes eating motions with his mouth.
He is EbF on demand and I'd like to start introducing small amounts of solid to begin getting him used to different tastes etc. I have already given him a tiny taste of banana which he responded well too.
Part of the reason is that I have to return to work at 6 months and he will be going to nursery. I cannot express enough milk and would prefer him to be able to have some solids by then.
I know guidance suggests that babies should not have solids until they are up until 6 months but I think he is ready. What do people suggest? What kinds of food could we introduce him to? I'm thinking very tiny amounts for now. I really not interested in buying baby rice or cereal, i want to offer him stuff that we'd eat straight away (though within reason obviously!)
What about porridge?
Our baby was super hungry and the doctor suggested we give him porridge. He was drinking gallons and gallons of milk, becoming really windy and then distressed. On his first birthday he weight 25 pounds and was 86 cm long. He needed food at four months and if that is what you think your baby needs then definitely do it.
He'll need breastmilk or formula during the day, most babies have day time milk feeds until 9-12 months Yes I get that!! I just wanted to use solids in addition to some breastmilk rather than have to pump about 16 - 24 oz of breastmilk which frankly, seems impossible! Thank you for your responses.
am now banging head on wall and calling troll
LadyMetroland yes, that sounds like a really good idea. Thanks mameulah Although I am aware of guidelines, my baby is also massive and weighs around 18lbs already. He's in some 6- 9 month clothes. He supports his own weight, is beginning to sit up and grabbing for everything! he is making 'eating motions' and very interested in our food. It won't be long for sure. He is 16 weeks and 3 days. He was overdue.
mamulah what porridge do you use?
Aptamil make a porridge. I used that, mixed with aptamil milk for quite a while, at about five o'clock. Because it was officially baby porridge it made me feel a bit more confident.
I know that EVERYONE means well but
Madeup I totally understand. Our baby is now 13 months old and easily fits 18-24month old clothes, he runs around and climbs all day. IMHO he has needed food for a lot longer than some of his peers.
Muller rice is also good, although I never gave him the sweet sugary flavoured stuff at the bottom of the pot. Weetabix that has been soaked in formula milk for ages. Easy things like that until you feel better about YOUR CHOICE, how your baby is coping with and how you manage the change whilst thinking about going back to work.
You need to do your own thing and don't worry about everyone else and their opinions. I reckon we would all be united in saying that a mars bar was out of the question but the six month recommendation is exactly that, a recommendation based that I imagine is based on averages.
My friend has three children, her youngest wasn't interested in food until way after six months, she didn't sit her down and start forcing food into her because the guidelines said it was the right time.
Beside the formula in the supermarket you will see lots of different porridge and cereal recommended from six months onwards. There is also a powder that you mix with water of things like broccoli and cheese, roast dinner. Obviously if you know Annabel Karmel lives next door to you then don't do that but if you are feeling a bit overwhelmed and unsure it is good to get you going.
Good luck, and feel free to pm me if you have any other questions.
Also, mix the porridge with breast milk if it makes you feel better.
thanks memulah that's really helpful. I'm going to stop hovering near the baby food aisles like a dodgy bloke near the top shelf in a newsagents and actually have a look. My bloody family are very anti formula, snooty about it, so i feel guilty. It's stupid.
Can I ask, did your DC get very frustrated ?. Mine is so frustrated at the moment. Very cranky. We brought baby toys but hewants things he can interact with. The toys he enjoys are 18 month plus and i'm thinking I shouldnt get them, theyll be dangerous etc. I feel a bit lost and stressed tbh. In my mind this is going in hand with the wanting to introduce solids. I know its a bit off topic but as you say, children are all different.
I'm following Gill Rapley's baby-led weaning at the moment with my 7 mo DD (she wrote a really helpful book, but also Google her if you're interested in BLW as the basics are on her website.
Anyway and FWIW, we began DD on BLW at 23 weeks, because DD was showing the right signs (sitting unsupported, bringing things to mouth, seemed to have lost her tongue thrust reflex etc.) and she took to it well. I guess I'm saying that it's possible for babies to get there a bit before 6 mo and be properly ready - and with BLW if they're not ready, they won't eat.
I don't like the idea of formula either - even though I give DD dairy foods now, and it's not like it's poisonous - so I do get where you're coming from there
Also FWIW, DS was weaned at 22 weeks following Annabel Karmel's puree approach, which was ok but harder work!
Thank you Theseboots That is also really really helpful. And reassuring too.
Hello made up, I have been following this as I have a little boy here and was wondering about weaning. I am going to wait.
I was just thinking to myself, you don't have to tell everyone everything. Maybe you are too open at home. I know I keep a lot to myself as my mother tends to be a bit opinionated and critical so that's the way I deal with things.
Don't give egg!! Huge allergy risk!!
madeup you might find it useful to take a look at The Wonder Weeks in relation to your baby's crankiness - there's a book and an app. I have the latter, and if you input your baby's due date it gives you a schedule of when your baby is likely to experience 'stormy', cranky phases when they are going through major developmental leaps. 16 weeks is a big one, often related to the dreaded four month sleep regression. At 20 weeks DD has just come through this leap and it's striking to see the change in her mood and the skills that she's developed.
Size is no induction of gut development, although it is a common myth that big babies are ready early.
The worry is if you fill him up on solids, he won't be getting enough calories overall. Milk (especially BM)
contains far more calories and fats than solids. It is also more easily digestible, so they consume more calories overall.
Fats are also essential for brain development which peaks between 6-12months, hence why milk should be the main source of nutrition before one.
Kellymom has a great table detailing calories and fat content vs foods you might find useful.
Personally I would EBF as long as possible and think about introducing formula above pushing solids.
I wanted to reply because I have been in your situation. My DS2 started nursery at 6mo exactly. He was EBF and wouldn't take formula.
I wouldn't introduce solids. There would be no real benefit as far as I can see; he would get more nutrition and comfort from formula.
Also, although some babies are large - DS2 was sitting up unsupported at 16 weeks, could easily get things into his mouth, is very tall for his age - I felt that didn't make his stomach ready for solids. Watching people eat is part of what babies do. Frustration is also pretty common in babies as it's part of their development so they learn new things. So for me, waiting for 6mo was right and DS2 has taken to them very well. He eats what we eat (no salt) whizzed up and lots of finger food - a mix of spoons and BLW.
I would express one feed a day from now and freeze. Just one. And then when you baby starts nursery, you should have a decent supply to send to nursery without having to express vat quantities.
You can then express just one feed at work during the day too. This should get you through a couple of months, by which time your DS may be eating enough solids to rely only on feeds before and after work and in the night. It is a pain to express but DS2 wouldn't touch formula (just like DS1!) so it was the best option for me.
My DS2 has just turned 9mo and no longer needs bottles of expressed milk during the day - he bf in the morning/eve/night. It feels much more manageable like this. (And it's a lovely way for me and DS2 to connect after the working day.)
You can always PM me if you want any more details. Good luck.
Sorry, vat quantities should be "vast quantities". If you needed to express a vat, that would be pretty daunting...
Can I ask if you are giving any bottled expressed milk at the moment...My DS took bottles initially but after I stopped for a couple of months he never touched a bottle again..so worth giving an occasional expressed bottle...
Why would you need to express such large quantities?
I returned to work at approx 6 months with both DC, I expressed twice a day for the first few weeks then down to once. This meant 8-10 oz down to say 4-6 oz expressed per day. I hadn't expressed loads before, but it worked as I did it at regular times.
I also left a small freezer stash in case baby had a hungry day or I got held up and an extra feed was required.
Just to let you know that it can be possible. Both of mine were only just having first tastes of food when I went back too.
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