I'll try and be brief! I've started to wean my (first) DC (6 months). We're BLW. She's not really "eating" much yet but loves putting everything in her mouth and tasting it all. Nappies show some evidence of digestion (e.g. Kiwi pits) so I guess she's eating some of it.
So far so good. The problem is me, not her, because I am TERRIFIED of choking! I've read all the books and they say babies are not anymore likely to choke with BLW. I guess this is true but when The Fear gets hold of me I start to doubt it!
It's quite odd really because on the whole my DH&I are very relaxed parents. So it's not like I'm generally an anxious person! DH gets upset with my anxiety and says I have to trust the baby (which is true!). I've already noticed my fear of choking upsets DC: earlier she was chomping away on a piece of toast and then I got scared when she bit a piece off and I took it away from her. Then when I gave it back she didn't want it anymore! Could be coincidence I guess but the thought of my DD assimilating my fears is awful. My mother and Gran were both excessively preoccupied with choking so I guess that's where my fear comes from, and I just desperately want to avoid this for my DC.
I am a rational and relaxed person with an irrational fear of choking. Is there anyone out there with a similar experience? Please give me some tips on how to cope, and save DD from this nutjob of a mother!
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BLW & massive fear of choking. Please help!
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TheThirdHare · 15/07/2013 15:33
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