DS 16months has always been a relatively picky eater. A favourite one week may be a no no the next etc.
If your lo refuses lunch/dinner what/do you offer an alternative? I usually offer fruit, yoghurt, or cereal but as DS has such a sweet tooth I am not sure if he thinks this is a treat.
I am worried that I am setting a precedent that if you don't like something mummy will give you something sweet. However, he hardly has any milk only about 5oz a day and this is in the morning. So if he doesn't eat dinner I am worried he will go to bed hungry and wake mummy up