I used to ride as a teenager (only lessons) didn't ride for years and recently got back in the saddle in my 30s.
I have been riding a friend's old cob who has been great to get me back in the saddle, she's an angel to handle and is a total superstar out hacking, but is soooo lazy in the school so I have decided to get some lessons at a riding school in addition to riding the sweet but lazy cob.
Amazingly I think I might have actually found a decent riding school! I've been to a lot of schools I didn't like for various reasons (different instructor every week, instructor young and struggled to relate to 30-something returning to riding, booked private lesson but had to share school with 5 other horses, horses that won't trot/canter without being whipped, lessons that start late and finish early......)
Anyway I had my first lesson at the new place this week, the instructor actually talked to me about my ability and picked a suitable horse to match (ie sensible but willing) the lesson was great and it felt soooo good to ride a forward going well-schooled horse for the first time in years!
Please come and tell me about your experiences returning to riding.
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Peanutbutterandnutellanutter · 16/09/2014 14:19
Perfect displacement activity here - I should be working 
... I really welcome this thread, though!
A couple of years ago I started riding again after a looong break (20+ years). During time out from riding I'd hacked a bit here and there and then done some beginners polo, which made me realise I had to do something to be back around horses generally! I missed everything - including bringing in on winter nights, stuffing haynets, the lot.
I started off with weekly lessons: good instructor, nice horses to ride. The worst bit was how horribly out of condition I was physically: I couldn't get my body to do really basic schooling stuff, worst of all was how weak I was around my core - and that was after having done quite a bit of pilates over the past few years and finding it not too difficult!
I looked around for shares, and found a couple (more of that later), went as far as contacting yards to ask if they wanted an extra pair of hands at weekends (like a teenager, I know, I know... also found out how I was no longer up to mucking out 2 stables without feeling as if I would collapse ... And I say this as someone who exercised regularly and thought of herself as quite fit).
Early sharing experiences weren't great. There seem to be a lot of owners out there who want someone to ride horses that they've given up on after having let the horse get away with anything - said horses often very unfit, curious behavioural issues, possibly through health problems, possibly lack of proper schooling and decent management. But they won't tell you that that's why they won't get on their own horses. All quite odd if you're feeling your way back into the horse world and riding.
Eventually loaned a horse for a few months. I don't still have her, but found out quite a bit about my local riding world, met some fab people, possibly starting another share soon - through a friend rather than web searching. Really excited about that.
It's taken quite a while to find riding friends whose horse management I'm really comfortable with, but I've got there! 
I've found that a lot has changed - not all of it for the better. Horse owning seems to be a lot more 'consumerish' - with lots of owners forking out for tons of fancy stuff: multi-coloured rugs, magical massage numnahs, fancy feed supplements... for horses that do little more than potter around the block now and again... those sorts of things. At the same time, owners and riders who really know their stuff (even real basics of safe handling), get on with basic essentials (keeping tack really clean, schooling regularly and properly, keeping horses consistently working fit) seem rarer than they did in the past. Which is odd. As have been brushes with Parelli fanatics and that kind of new fangled flummery. But I'm getting there and really enjoying it. And I do need to ride a few times a week so as not to feel like an uncoordinated sack of potatoes.
I just started riding again this summer (age 37) after a twenty year break . I had a horse as a teenager but stopped riding when I went off to Uni. Then I started working, met DH and got married, had babies...you know how it goes!
Anyway, my first few lessons at 'Massive Yard X' were not great...I was treated like an absolute beginner and put on dear old plods that didn't want to do anything (and I'm not a thrill seeker!). I found a new (small, private, training and sales) barn that let me do some lessons and practice rides on their retired show horses and I realized what I had been missing. I was able to try out a young thoroughbred that had been raised and backed on site and fell in love and now he belongs to me! He's only four and still green but he's calm, sweet and eager to please. I have lots of time during the day for schooling so we've been working on polishing up his basics and working out kinks (CORNERS!) It's hard work but beyond rewarding when you realize that something has 'clicked'. I put off returning to riding for a long time...there was always something (work, babies, vacations, potential overseas move) in the way but I just decided to do it before I lost my nerve and I'm so, SO glad I did.
I've not been out of the saddle that long, only a few years, but I've not ridden regularly for any decent length of time for maybe six years or so.
I've just started doing WW with a view to potentially starting up riding again (I blame the WEG TV coverage......) when I'm at a weight I'm happy with subjecting horses to
I'm not totally decided yet though as there's a real dearth of good riding schools around where I live, or at least good ones for an adult who has done a lot of riding and wants to progress a bit further than the basics. There are a lot of 'kick & pull' type schools with your average ploddy RS cobs. There's one place which is supposedly very good but I rode there for a while and I really didn't like it, think being told to get the horses in an outline by sawing on their mouths 
There used to be a fabulous place run by a student of Phillipe Karl where I had some superb lessons but the RS part closed down and she now only teaches on a simulator or does lessons for people with their own horses.
I'm not really at a stage where I'd want to share, loan or buy so it may well be that the WW is all going to be for nothing.
WeAreGroot I can totally relate to this:
I'm not totally decided yet though as there's a real dearth of good riding schools around where I live, or at least good ones for an adult who has done a lot of riding and wants to progress a bit further than the basics. There are a lot of 'kick & pull' type schools with your average ploddy RS cobs
A lot of riding schools I have tried seem to be ok for children or beginners but if you are someone who has previously ridden quality well-schooled horses it's hard to find a decent riding school.
I learnt to ride at a place that was basically a livery yard that did lessons so 90% of the horses were on working livery which meant there were some really good quality horses. Even the two steady cobs that beginners rode would do nice walk to canter transitions, leg yield, shoulder in, work in an outline etc.
After learning to ride (properly) at this yard I went to another yard where I couldn't get the pony into canter in my assessment lesson so the instructor said I would have to join the beginners class rather than the intermediate class as she said I clearly couldn't canter I think the issue was that I have been taught to canter by sitting trot, inside leg on the girth and outside leg squeezing behind the girth whereas at this yard the canter aid was kick, kick, KICK and the horses complexly ignored my aids!
I started again early last year after a 16 year absence. I used to be very good at dressage, but of course stopping for any amount of time will ruin such skills quite quickly. I stopped riding when I moved out of my parents house for uni, and afterwards wandered around doing not-enough-for-horses-paid jobs, and then moved from my home country (Germany) to the UK for more not-enough-for-horses-paid jobs. 3 years ago I moved in with my now husband, and there happened to be a stable 5 minutes walk away.
I had a couple of lessons, and despite the long break I wasn't doing too bad, though unfortunately inconsistent (my core has gotten a little weak and my hips aren't what they used to be - I'm still trying to solve the hip problem ). So brought on the yoga. I took up a share in that very stable, but the horse always had back problems and eventually became unsound because of athritis in his hocks, so I gave up the share, and found myself another stable. So at the moment I'm just taking lessons on their lovely school masters and mistresses, and we're getting somewhere. In fact I'm being taught how to ride a proper Piaffe at the moment on a lovely older school mistress who has a bit of fire under her bum 
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I told The Husband that there will be dogfishHorse within the next two years.... He's not very happy but he doesn't get a vote.
I'm going to return to horse riding for the third time. I rode as a child for 10yrs, doing pony club, eventing, showjumping. Even had a go at polocrosse but couldn't reach the ball from a 15.3hh horse . Mainly want to get back to eventing and dressage.
The first time I went back to horses was about 15 years after uni. I rode with a riding school, who fortunately had some horses that could do shoulder in, leg yield etc, so that was my first introduction to lateral work. I stopped after a while, as the school decided to 'change directions' and cater only to beginner and intermediate school aged children.
The second time I returned to horse riding, I took on a 19 yr old, retired 1* horse and brought him back into work. He was hard work, especially in the first year, and I almost sent him back in the first 3 months. I am glad we were able to work through it though, with lots of lessons from an instructor and consistent riding and handling, he turned out to be the best horsie experience of my life. He taught me so much about riding and owning horses and I credit him with making me the rider I am now. He was the horsie love of my life.
The next time I go back, I am probably going to take on a young ex-racer to bring on. I'd like to work up the levels of dressage and eventing, but there are so many factors to consider. I will be happy just to own a horse again, and to restart my journey in the horsie partnership.
Ooh, Zazzles, this morning I went hacking with two ladies that have young ex-racers. The horses are both lovely, healthy well-adjusted hunters now and have adjusted beautifully to their new careers .
Aww, that sounds lovely Oscar. Its good to hear of ex-racers getting rehomed and reeducated for another horsie career .
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Way to go, Enlightened. That sounds fab! Let us know about the different horses you get to try .
I'm over the moon at the moment. I love, love, LOVE my barn. The people are wonderful and everyone has been really friendly and welcoming. My coach is fantastic and has really helped me get off to a good start with OscarWinningHorse. It's hard work and I come home dirty and sweaty and sometimes bruised after a ride but I LOVE very second. I wish I'd come back to it sooner too. For anyone that might be reading this that is on the fence about starting back to riding...DO IT! AS DD would say, YOLO .
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