Seriously - DD's riding lesson today was one of the longest 45 minutes of my life. She rode the same pony as last week, only on that occasion I was in Tesco rather than having conniptions at the side of the arena. Fine at a walk, but whenever the pony was asked to trot she tossed her head. A lot. And continued to do so. She seemed to toss her head down without fail when DD was out of the saddle in rising trot. Then one of the school staff asked the new instructor if she knew about this pony, that she really should be at the back as she WOULD kick if crowded, and then there were some other mutterings I didn't quite catch ...
Thing is ... DD was absolutely fine. Happy. Said she liked the pony (nutter). She looked totally in charge, and evidently she didn't think she was as close to falling off as I did (I did tell her that things like that usually look worse to a spectator, as when you rode you know where your centre of gravity is, and how close you are to a spill, while someone watching can't tell). And the best thing was her instructor today used to teach her at a different school, and hasn't seen her ride for about six months, at which time DD had a tendency to cry if her pony cantered a bit too fast.
So I was really proud of her, but OMG ... I used to ride, and I was never this scared on my own account. In fact I do want to find somewhere to hack out with her this summer, but I fear that my anxiety for HER is going to translate itself into nerves on my own behalf.
Any tips on how to stop being neurotic, or any to hand on to DD about handle a bonkers pony, gratefully received ...
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DontCallMeBaby · 14/04/2013 18:38
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