I'm really interested to know whether there is yet hope for me?!
Story is that I rolde an awful lot growing up, show jumping, pony club, rode other peoples horses for them, did a few one day events and charity cross country rides, etc. and then in my early 20's had a horse on loan for a while - but did hacking only.
Fast forward another 20 years and I decided withe some other friends in a similar position to go out riding again. There's a place near us that rehomes and retrain ex race horses / showjumpers, so we went there and had a fab 90 minutes out - walk, trot and some canter. My horse got a bit exuberant towards the end and di a massive fly-buck on the last canter and fortunately I stayed on. That shook me a bit, so I decided after than hack o go back for a few lessons in their school. The lessons have been fab and have done a lot for me in terms of remembering importance of your seat, core strength, etc. etc.
So last weekend, decided to go on another 90 minute hack. Admitedly it was windy and there were a few of us, but I rode another horse who apparently (and we chose him specifically for my confidence issues) is normally a complete gent. Well he was until again the last canter when he started jumping up and down on the spoty, a bit of head throwing around and some spinning too. Now had this of happened in my 20's, I think I would have been fine and just laughed it off, if not gee'd him up a bit more, but now I'm not sure I really like that and I was massively concerned he was going to tank off and chuck me out of the side door (against some trees....) so to speak.
So back to original question - do you think I just need more 'miles in the saddle' or do you genuinely think that once you've lost it, it's difficult to get that comfort level back again.
Any thoughts would be really helpful....
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Do you think it's ever possible to get your 'horse' confidence back again?
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HandbagAddiction · 07/10/2010 20:52
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