Long story,basically I do 1 day a week casual cover at my son's school,it was my training school years ago before he started and I've done casual cover one day a week for the past three years
Everythings been great and fine,until this year. He's moved up to year 3 and I was getting reports of disruption and rudeness. He's just been diagnosed as dyspraxic this week and I've spoken to the teacher about strategies to implement in the class to help him. The OT who assessed said his behaviour in the class was down to him not being sure what to do and confused as opposed to him acting out for the sake of it. Anyway,his teacher is new this year and she is secondary trained,I presume shes done a conversion course. I haven't been greatly happy with her when I've met up with her to talk about strategies on how to help my son but they finally seem to be happening now,so we'll see how things go.
I am concerned about another TA though.I've worked with her myself and found her very strict with the kids. And im a teacher myself and think I'm strict! Today my DS told me he now has to miss break for being rude to another kid. Fair enough. But he's swearing to me that this kid said things first but he's not getting into trouble. Doesn't seem fair or that she's even looked into the situation properly.
Now I know that I sound like a precious parent. But my son is finding things really hard at the moment and controlling his emotions is another thing the OT said he has problems with. And he said he cried today when this TA took him outside of the class to reprimand him.
Im just getting very frustrated at this situation. I feel like its one thing after another at the moment. First the teacher being uncooperative now this TA. And I feel in a really uncomfortable position. If I had no ties to the school,I'd prob just leave it and if I continued to be unhappy,go and talk to the head. But working there makes me feel very conflicted. I am only due to work there until Easter and I'm seriously considering not renewing my contract after that. Or if things happen again,I may just go to the head and explain I'm finding things a real struggle as am not feeling happy as a parent.
It's so frustrating this is happening after 3 years. The school expanded from infant to primary over the past few years and I think this is causing some problems the head is not used to. I've worked in education long enough to recognise a person who likes intimidating others in their job role and I seriously think this TA is one.
Any advice for me? As I said,I know I may come across precious and my son knows what teacher says goes. But in these two instances I don't feel the teacher has supported him and has pigeonholed him and that this TA hasn't been fair.
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wonderstuff100 · 02/12/2016 18:41
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