I had a Head of Dept meeting tonight immediately after school which has been in the family calendar for weeks. I normally pick up the kids straight from school but would obviously be unable to. This morning DH comes in saying he has a meeting about his teaching job (due to start In 2 weeks) so he can't pick up the kids for me which means I end up having to apologise to the Deputy Head for having to miss my meeting.
I then receive a very curt email saying that the mtg has been scheduled in plenty of time and whilst he appreciates the problems associated with child care (I don't think he does) this is the second time this year I've had to do this etc etc.
It's basically DHs fault for not consulting the calendar and or arranging for his parents to pick up the kids (they have to come a long way but would do it) but, yet again, my career and reputation takes the knock.
But what would you do re email? Apologise profusely, dignified silence or object to the fact that its hard enough trying to hold it all together at the best of times as a full time working mother of two. He points out that 'as a female HoD your contribution is valued' (or something). I feel like pointing out we wouldnt be such a rarity if more support were offered!
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Spiderwithoneeye · 05/06/2013 19:26
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